okoy so my doc told me that if i were to have sex at age 14 as long as the guy gets checked out for an std's and he doesn't ejculate into i cant get pregant is that true i am not going to have sex but i am alittle worried about how many women he has told that to.
2007-01-31 22:53:53 · 7 answers · asked by pagirl_93knows 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
A doctor told you that?!?!?! Good Lord! No, that's not true! I know for a fact that the "pull-out" method doesn't work! LOL. It's how my hubby and I ended up with a 1yr old and a 2 yr old... the 1 yr old was a "pull out" oops! LOL. But for us, it was alright in the end. We're full grown adults... and we're married!
At 14, an "oops" isn't a good thing. At 14, you shouldn't even be having sex yet. Do you know that 2/3rds of all teenagers who have sex have STD's of some sort? So... if 100 teenagers are in a room, and about 70 of them are having sex, then guess what... almost 50 of the 70 have an STD! I used to volunteer for Planned Parenthood. You have NO idea how many 13-19 year olds are out there running around your high school with all kinds of sexual diseases. It was an eye opener for me... I was in college at the time, and OMG did it smack me into reality!
There are FAR worse things than pregnancy out there. Make a visit to your local health department or planned parenthood to get some sexual health info. Do your parents know that your doctor told you this???? I bet if they did, they'd be finding you a new doctor... QUICK!
You should tell your parents what you've told us, so that they can talk to you about it. Good luck!
2007-01-31 23:08:30 · answer #1 · answered by Jemmie Vee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have sex you CAN get pregnant. No ifs, ands or buts about it. Trusting a guy to pull out is a horrible horrible idea. Guys pre-ejaculate and that alone can get you pregnant. It isn't as likely but it can still happen. Best way not to get preggers? Don't have sex. If you do, use protection and realize that there is always a risk of pregnancy no matter what.
2007-01-31 23:03:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
who ever told yo that needs to get the sack. A bloke releases a lot of sperm before he ejaculates this is able to get you pregnant. And also honey you are under age i know i sound old but you need to think carefully about it. Sex is the best thing that was invented especially when you are care full and you really love that person. Has this doctor also ad viced you about the pill or condoms etc. Please don't listen to him and possibly report him.
There might be one person who he has told this to who is not as bright as you and wont question it.
Take care and wish you all the best of luckx
2007-01-31 23:03:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your doctor wants in your panties.
Even if your man pulls out long before cumming, he can still leave enough to knock you up. I told another girl this earlier.
You need to worry about telling your parents that you are knocked up. Worry about the guy telling you it isn't his kid and that you are a ho.
Worry about telling your parents the doctor told you if wasn't the flu but an STD. Or the pain telling any future partner that you have an STD that has no cure.
Think About It !!!
Think About It !!!
Think About It !!!
2007-02-01 04:26:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
no thats not true, because before a man ejaculates he gets a little bit of pre ejaculation and that can get you pregnant, if your thinking of having sex, get on the pill and make sure the bloke wears a condom
2007-01-31 22:59:07 · answer #5 · answered by lealea 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should report his doctor. Utterly irresponsible.
2007-01-31 23:31:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i only say "dont"
2007-01-31 23:10:50 · answer #7 · answered by narges 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋