There is this guy that i am training with, he is 38 never married lives with his mother, keeps on asking me, and other girls on the course out for a date. when he asked me out i told him very gently that i was not interested, just saw his as a friend blah blah...
he keeps on asking me so now i try and avoid him as best i can.
he then told me that his biggest fear was being rejected by women and that he had a bad relationship with his mother ( classic anthony perkins stuff) then he asked me out again, i told him NO, and that what he just said was emotional blackmail and he needs to stop asking us all out. he then got angry and said the real issue is that you are angry because you think I like other girls, why cant u admit that you like me! WTF? i told him i thought he need psychiatric help. how would you deal with a guy like that? he freaks me out, but being nice never worked, being firm never worked, dont want to make an official complaint any ideas?
2007-01-31 22:43:08 · 1 answers · asked by raggyann 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
you really need to do something about him, it's not fair for you or anyone else to have to put up with that sort of behaviour - it's completely unexceptable.
if you don't want to make an official compliant, could you make an unofficial one? i.e. talk to the relevant person (his boss/your boss/trainer on course) and ask them to have a quiet word with him, explain that you don't want to get him in trouble or take it any futher at the moment you just want him to stop.
this is harrassment and needs to be stopped before it gets more out of hand than it has already.
good luck with it x
2007-02-01 09:52:40 · answer #1 · answered by aria 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋