Me and my friend were tighter than sisters but her and my mother got into a very bad altercation. Terrible words were exchanged and I love my best friend but the things shes said about my mother have really tarnished how I feel about her. I told her I didnt want what happened to tear us apart but everytime I think about her, it makes my heart hurt and I dont think I ever want to see or speak to her again. Our friendship was the greatest ever and I wish things could get back to what they were, is there any hope?
2007-01-31 21:09:14 · 14 answers · asked by bkhon3y 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
If you choose to rekindle the friendship you have to make sure she apologizes and agree to be more considerate in future.
2007-01-31 21:44:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. If you really want to bring back the friendship you had with her, you must work it out. Be the first one to approach her. You can call her... or even send her a massage. Remind her of the friendship you had before... Invite her out, and if her reaction is still some kinda negative or if she still doesn't feel like reconciling... then give her some time. Maybe shes not yet ready. Don't lose hope....
2007-01-31 23:26:52 · answer #2 · answered by teejay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you could. Refresh your mind, and open a new book of friendship. Believe in yourself. Try to be nice with your friend again. I think she has the same feeling as you are now. Someone special can't just vanish like that in your life. Besides, you guys have fun before don't you? This mean that you guys could be friends again. And who knows it will be better than before. The Best is yet to come....
2007-01-31 22:43:44 · answer #3 · answered by Yakusoku 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are both probably responsible for the situation now. The argument however should have died down now and hopefully you both can move past it. You never know she may be feeling the exact same as you, yet she may be more stubborn. I would say do more to rekindle your friendship. Send her text and write her a letter and post it through her door. As you said the argument was mostly on your behalf, you need to make more effort than just sending a twitter message, you have to redeem yourself friendship wise and make her feel how important she is to you. She may not respond to your twitter message.
2016-05-24 01:14:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
a lot of people say things they don't really mean in the heat of an argument if this is the case she certainly needs to apologize to your mother no matter how the argument started. if she really meant what she said then you probably can never be friends and you shouldn't want to. if this is the case, grieve the lose of your best friend as long as needed and move on.
2007-01-31 21:18:28 · answer #5 · answered by Big_Dog_Spike 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, how does she think about you? Does she want to get pals with you again?
U know 1 thing for sure is that things will never be AS SAME as they were. There will be changes and confrontations towards eachother even if you get back together.
But it is always good to find out instead of sitting there thinking of possibilities.
2007-01-31 22:24:42 · answer #6 · answered by goldengirl_missevolution 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
all you both need to do is sit down together and talk it over apologize to each other and tell each other how much you have missed each other and that when ever something happens like that again you should sit and talk it out best Friends are hard to find
good luck
2007-01-31 22:31:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course there is. you guys just have to start over. apologize to each other. if your friendship was that great, you would DEFINITELY be friends again. i mean, as you said, you treated each other as sisters. probably, you know each other very well. so when it comes to these fights, you guys will easily make up again. open up to each other. that's all it takes. good luck with that, gorgeous. love yah.
2007-01-31 21:54:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you can, just open a new white paper with her and try to start all over again, this kind of problems can be fixed again..
2007-01-31 21:16:04 · answer #9 · answered by not now 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dear i have a story 90 % same as ur story , but i think theirs a hope but maby it will take time specially if one of the friends cant reach the other
2007-01-31 22:20:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋