Response to apples to oranges question/ (multiple questions within)?

Question

Trying to get at is why do straight women like the way curves look more than defined muscles or the male physique,or find them more attractive. Just click on my previous link titled apples to oranges, right? under the same categorie as this.Just showing how both have attractive qualities unique from each other, but yet I have heard many straight women say that a women's bodies are more appealing than a man's. Muscles aren't that appealing? I was just showing the two different qualities,but thenwhen I hear this it confuses me.I thought aesthetics were aesthetics, but are there sexual attractionaesthetics and "art"aesthetics?Why do you choose the less attractive sex orbesexually attracted to the one that is not pleasant tolook at?I hope to not hear about emotion,or utilitarian a.k.a ugly ape (no pun intended, well maybe)tool/ f*** machine, because it doesn't really mean physically/visually attractive of man itself, but more of attraction of male attributes, thus bittersweet feeling

Answer 1

Well that was a long winded question.

Some people only want to see what is on the outside. They are the ones who will judge people on the shape or definition of their body.

Then there are others like myself who will see a person, but they don't just see what is on the outside. They can see hints of a person's pesonality. They can see things like vanity, or honesty, or anger or humour.

These people like to reserve their judgement on others until they get to know or even speak to a person.

I will give you an example. A guy sent a "wink" on a dating site. I responded and gave him a chance to get to know me better. Within a couple of seconds of chatting to him online, I knew that he was the sort of person who likes to play the role of a victim, and always wants others to feel sorry for him.

In the end I told him we would just be friends.

Answer 2

It's all in each person's preference. Some women might think a womans body is more attractive than a man's body, but not be physically attracted to her.