sex without kissing?

Question

ok, so have any of you had sex with a person once or a few times without kissing? like a one time thing w/someone you don't know very well? ppl have told me they have and i want to know how that works. how two ppl can do it without kissing. who makes the move and what is that move. how do u agree ur going to have sex without kissing. i don't get it.

i'm married no sh-t i've had sex, i am just curious about this because i've never had sex that way

Answer 1

Sounds odd to me - dont get that at all. Dont listen to them!

Answer 2

Lmao at Crow T Robot. I so agree, somebody doesn't have all their marbles. But anywho, kissing adds the whole affect to the sex..then again like it's been said if there's no kissing involved usually its just a fck. Real talk.

Answer 3

This might be hard to fathom, but some people have a hang up about kissing. People have all sorts of hang-ups, that keep them from doing various things.

You can visit SWAGE and find out all the different things people have to do without because they have partners who don't want to do this or that. You wouldn't believe how many uptight people there are in the world.

Be lucky you're not in this situation.

(My spouse won't give good kisses.)

Answer 4

I don't think that people set down and decide to have sex without kissing. The only times that I have done that were when my ex-husband stopped kissing me, that was the beginning of the end.
I guess that if you are in the heat of the moment and just can't contain yourselves, the kissing may get skipped over during a quickie.
But for me it is a very important part of the process.

Answer 5

I do not recall ever having sex without kissing either. My boyfriend once said to me of course i kissed her, you always kiss when you are having sex. I suppose of course it could be done but i would guess not very often. Not sure how it would start like you said unless you just came out and said lets go.

Answer 6

Sounds to me like you have to much time on your hands. Kissing isn't a prerequisite for sexual acts. With or without it doesn't matter. Some women and men just don't want the kissing part for some reason---it's all a matter of choice.

Answer 7

It's if you're having sex in a playful manner rather than an emotional one. Typically, when you're doing this, you are talking making silly/funny comments, usually sexual in nature. While less meaningful, it can make sex more fun. Try it out with your husband and see if it's for you. I wouldn't tell him what you're doing though, or it will make it seem like a clinical experiment or something.

Answer 8

I had a boyfriend that hated kissing, he would only do it when he was drunk. You just sort of let your hands do the talking and stare at each other intensley. Quite bizarre. I couldn't be in a relationship like that again though. I love kissing, such a turn on.

Answer 9

I have been with women who have sex and no kissing.
They reserve the kissing for their real love interests.
Yes, they want just sex and no romance. Just like most of us guys if they were honest about it..you asked the question and I answered so don't go ...ewwwww?

Answer 10

With someone I don't know very well? No, with my husband to be, sure skip the kissing for the quickiest of quickies. It's good to do it this way if you're in a public place. Hehehe. >:)

Answer 11

it usually just begiins with touching...or after drinking....
I had a sexual relationship with a man...that for some reason..we ddin't talk much....but i had this strange emotional attatchment to him....but i guess the kissing is just very personal....lol and the sex isn't!!? I know....but basically...you both just end up in a place where you have sex...you just both know....one of you touches the other...and one thing leads to another...