2007-01-31 20:27:30 · 17 answers · asked by hotchoco_cheesecake 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
went back to my home country for 2 mos.. when i came back... felt that something was wrong... then found some evidences.. then he admits it... said that he wont do it again... and that we will start all over again..
we do not have kids..
2007-01-31 22:49:39 · update #1
1) ask urself why he did it, maybe of ur lack of attention on him..
2) he is honest to admit, give him a chance...
PS: i did that before, my wife forgive me and now im having a
better marriage than before
2007-02-01 03:51:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go for a separation immediately. No second thoughts. Once you both are separate, not talking to each other or arguing or fighting or pleading, you can think clearly and a lot of other things will come out too.
Got kids? the wife should have them to start with.
2007-02-01 06:09:37 · answer #2 · answered by Josephene 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out now before you bring children into this nightmare. Honestly answer this question: can you ever really trust your husband 100% again? If the answer is no, then get out now. A marriage that doesn't have trust as a base is doomed to fail, in my opinion.
2007-02-02 18:58:08 · answer #3 · answered by saylavie2u2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hope it's a water bed and it springs a leak!
Or if wall bed, flip it back into the wall with them in it!
Hide-a-bed fold them up in it!
If bed is on rollers, put all his crap on it and let her roll down the Hwy.
Enough bedroom talk in this household.
That's what I would do
PS. And yell at him while rolling down main drag," Hope that lay was worth it?"
Because when I get screwed I would at lest like a smile on my face.
2007-02-01 04:38:47 · answer #4 · answered by Bluelady... 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I do not think that he would do that, but if he did, well we'd sit down and have a calm and rational conversation and take it from there. I think it's quite a sadistic question though. I guess your husband has cheated on you and you believe that misery loves company and want some advice. Ah well.
2007-02-01 04:31:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Kick his butt out and get a divorce.
Burn the sheets and flip the mattress.
2007-02-01 04:38:03 · answer #6 · answered by Tumbleweed 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would get rid of the bed and make him buy me a new one! I also would be very upset and hurt.
2007-02-01 05:37:43 · answer #7 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
close the door and leave, there is nothing you can do, so don't make it worse by puting yourself in funny situation. You don't need any explanations from him, just pack up and leave.
2007-02-01 05:55:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Change the sheets
2007-02-01 04:54:03 · answer #9 · answered by JoyDivision 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would leave.Imagine going through that when there are kids involved.Promises,promises hey?Didn't he promise you things on your wedding day?
2007-02-01 09:22:10 · answer #10 · answered by *charmer* 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋