What do you think a good mother consists of...?

Question

I mean I know fathers and mothers play different roles...but how could a young girl be a dis-advantage with being close to her dad. but not the mom... what are things your mom passed on to you? and why do you think it's important that one is close to their mother? you don't have to answer all...just one will help thanks.

Answer 1

A good mother to me is a woman who realizes that she is no longer a child and cannot expect her child to parent her. Who remembers what it was like to not be treated fairly when she was a child and strive to be fair to her children. To treat her children with love, respect and kindness. To provide for her children with a decent husband who not only loves but respects her and will provide for his family (before the kids arrive). A good mother reconizes it takes two loving, caring and providing parents to contribute to rearing a stable child. She will love them, correct them, guide them, teach them, discipline them when needed. Most importantly spend time with them and teach them about God. Teach them how to clean up after themselves,be neat, orderly; be kind to others and respect other people.
I don't think that a girl who is more closer to her dad is disadvantaged. She will usually find a female friend who can help/assist her with issues she is having. I was not around my daughter for the most of her life and she was very much female, level headed and even thought like me!
Not every one one this earth is going to be close to their mothers. There are some moms who would be role models and there are those who should never ever have had children. Till there is a law out that a person should qualify to be a parent, like a profession, we are stuck with anyone who has a reproductive system to take a crack at parenthood. As you can see from the statistics that Child Abuse and Neglect incidents are increasing as well as the Foster care system: from 278,000 placements in 1990 to over 400,000 in 2005. It's a sad fact that the current system is not working. Yet we continue to require study and proficiency for a profession that deals with interaction with other people but the one that society either profits from or pays (products of parenting) for is left to dimwits. Charles Manson was a product of a disfuntional mother, a cost to society.
Dr. James Dobson, Focus on the Family a contributer to society.
Get my drift?

Answer 2

Mothers set examples for their daughters. They teach them what a woman should and shouldn't be, whether it be positive or negative influence. For example, a mother is an alcoholic and is verbally and physically abused by the father. The daughter will grow up believing one of two things...

1. Men control me, and it's okay to allow drugs and alcohol to absorb my pain.

OR

2. I will never let a man treat me the way my mother did. I will never abuse a substance.

Mothers lay out the paths for their daughters. Too bad some of them don't realize it.

Fathers teach their children what is to be expected from the male race.

Answer 3

We learn different things from each of our parents and without a good relationship with either parent a person can miss out on important life lessons.

As a little boy, I learned sensitivity from my mother, how to treat women, what qualities to look for in women and that household chores aren't 'women's work'!!

From my father I learned to show strength, how to be a good man, how to provide from my family, how to stick up for myself.

I don't think it is vital for anyone to be close to their mother, but they should have a good relationship with them because only a mother can teach their daughter how to be a woman and only a father can teach his daughter what to avoid in men!

There is always a special bond between fathers and their daughters (I know I have two) but girls can have a good strong relationship with their mother too.

Answer 4

Well I don't know about for girls, since I'm a guy. But my mom has always done everything from me and didn't encourage me to be active so now I have difficulty expressing myself, am too dependent on people, and have to learn a lot of things the hard way. A good mom would raise her kids to be responsible and not just do everything for them.

Answer 5

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Answer 6

I dont think its overally important to be close to your mother but it certainly helps when discussing girl things like periods, boys, clothes, self image, gender relationships etc but if you are close to your father thats great, becuase a lot of girls are not that close to their dads meaning they dont have good solid relationships with them. I was close to my moher until I reached puberty and then it went pear shaped and to this day I dont know why really. And when I needed her to help guide me through the above mentioned issues she was not there so I had to read books.

I dont thinks its all that important. I would of liked to have a strong relationship with my dad so you are very fortunate. Be happy with what you have.

Answer 7

My mother gave me belonging. She made me feel I belonged to the family. She would say she was proud of me even if other said I did not do well. She was a true teacher. She tought me to be dedicated, respect others, be proud to where I came from and not to judge people for others say about them. Kindness. She taught me wisdom can be found in the smallest things.

Answer 8

Our mother is the one who gave birth to us so that is a very special gift that she has given to us!!!! Most mothers are protective of their children in given ways and do their best to be there for their children - male and female. Without our mother we wouldn't be in this world!!!!

Answer 9

If I got hurt, I would get enough attention to make it feel better, then my mother would put me back on the horse I fell off of, and say "Get Going", she would NOT tolerate a sissy !