A bi-curious girl hit on me ..confessed feelings..and then vanished(much more to this- I really like this girl) ....So I send a msg yesterday to say hi and that I moved and...she replied that she too was in the same state until Sat. and wanted to know the driving time between us... So I tell her only 45min and that we should meet...I get no response...She always shows interest but then nothing..no word..no nothing..Why does she keep doing this..Does she chicken out or something... (We met 6mnths ago) we have slept together 2mnths ago and I havent seen her since ..this would be the first since then...
2007-01-31 18:54:09 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Thanks for the responses..
2007-01-31 19:04:33 · update #1
It sounds like she might only be interested in you when it's convenient for her. No matter what it is a head game. you should either try to talk to her about it or move on, you'll be the one that gets hurt in the end if you don't.
2007-01-31 19:12:44 · answer #1 · answered by shark_315 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like this young woman has indeed got feelings for you, but might be in the process of getting comfortable with the idea of going out with you. Give it sometime and realize that most good things take time. If this woman was nice to you immediately after the night in question, then who knows.
2007-02-01 02:59:20 · answer #2 · answered by Guerrilla M 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Scared. She wants to but she is afraid. I deal with this all the time on the websites. I do it to others, and others do it to me. Email back and forth, it progressively gets to where we might be wanting to meet, then nothing...
2007-02-01 03:01:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't play her games. Move on. If she was truly interested in you, wild horses couldn't drag her away from you!
You don't play games with the person you truly want to be with.
2007-02-01 02:58:24 · answer #4 · answered by Angelpaws 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she sounds like a head game to me. she probably has someone else and can't tell that person about you. i think you should call her and say "hey, whats up"? or just forget her and move on. what state are you in?
2007-02-01 02:59:04 · answer #5 · answered by KAT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She either really likes you (and is afraid of that) or she just uses you as a backup in case her other plans fall through.
2007-02-01 02:58:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't seem like she's that interested. Talk to her and find out where you stand
2007-02-01 04:27:47 · answer #7 · answered by unclefrunk 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jesus Christ, I don't know what's up with your friend. Better yet, I doubt anybody here does unless they're a psychic weirdo. Don't you have something better to do than to dwell on this chick? Get over it and live!
2007-02-01 02:58:39 · answer #8 · answered by ♥♫!♫♥ 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
My guess is she may be involved with someone else, but still has feelings for you.
2007-02-01 02:57:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, I guess she's just chickening out... or maybe she has another relationship??
2007-02-01 02:57:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋