I'm a pretty lesbian who's been confident of my sexuality for years. Recently, i've fallen for this beautiful girl who is an aquaintance of mine; she's super straight and obviously isn't interested in me. Though, she thinks lesbians are hot and has lesbian friends, but just isn't attracted to them. Besides letting her watch ' the L word' what can i do?
2007-01-31 18:39:54 · 14 answers · asked by sou 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Just be there for her. Don't try to change her, just let her know that you think she is someone you are interested in, and you never know. One day a man may hurt her, and she may want to explore other avenues. As long as you are all ways there for her, she will respect that,and a relationship may grow. Good luck and have fun.
2007-01-31 18:52:27 · answer #1 · answered by feverishcalf 2 · 1⤊ 4⤋
I think people are reading to much into your title...
She can be in a relationship with a man and still desire women. I have been interested in females since I was 12. You know "playing house at your girlfriends sleep over"? But I have had many boyfriends over the years. I haven't acted on my feelings for women, but my husband thinks I am a lesbian.
Obviously she isn't a homophobe. Have a girls night out at the gay club, maybe things will just happen!!
GOOD LUCK!
2007-01-31 19:20:29 · answer #2 · answered by KAT 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Can I get this lesbian girl interested in me?
I'm not being sarcastic, think about it. What if one of your guy friends was really attracted to you and wanted a realtionship with you. Would you be interested - ever?
No, leave her alone and just be friends.
2007-01-31 18:56:48 · answer #3 · answered by scottie04240 2 · 5⤊ 1⤋
There is nothing you can do....If you're a lesbian do you think a hot man could interest you??
2007-01-31 18:44:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
If your friend was or is ever going to have a relationship with you that is sexual, it must be of her own valition. You trying to change her won't work.
2007-01-31 18:44:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
Respect her choice and move on. It's like a guy trying to get you to like him despite him being a guy. Not gonna work.
2007-01-31 18:50:01 · answer #6 · answered by Angelpaws 5 · 4⤊ 1⤋
You can't change anyone's sexuality. How would you feel if someone tried to change you to straight?
2007-01-31 18:42:19 · answer #7 · answered by Rae-Rae Nikkoles <3 3 · 4⤊ 1⤋
You can't make anyone into something their not....and why would you want to
This has bad idea writen all over it.
Accept people as they are.
2007-01-31 18:45:24 · answer #8 · answered by shark_315 3 · 4⤊ 3⤋
make a trans formatioin surgey
2007-01-31 19:21:40 · answer #9 · answered by muhammad elian 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋
too bad move on if she's straight she's not for you
2007-01-31 18:44:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋