only lesbian porn works for me but i only date men...?

Question

yeah, i never dated a chick and i date guys all the time and am very attracted and into them but straight porn freaks me out. i only like girl on girl. what the hell is that about'?

Answer 1

I don't think this is that crazy. Have you seen the straight porn that's out there? What I usually come across is misogynistic crud where women are b*tches, ho's, sl*ts, and basically, treated as second-class items there for his pleasure. Even ones that aren't explicitly bad in that regard seem to have a dynamic going on that I don't care for, either. Add to this the fact that it's a rare porn that shows real women's pleasure in all its glory- real orgasms, the kind that take time and come from good, precise foreplay, not a little sloppy rubbing down there- and who really would want to see straight porn? Most of the time, it's hardcore, and never very 'soft' the way that lesbian porn often is portrayed (don't get me wrong- I've seen, and enjoy, harder lesbian porn, but most of it is very tender). There's something slower, more sensuous, more focused on women's pleasure, in lesbian porn.

This might be why you only like girl-on-girl. Or it may be that it fills a particular fetish for you- you like the naughty aspect of watching it, even though you aren't attracted to women in real life. (Or are you? You don't say you are, so I assume you're straight). If you're bisexual, well, then that makes sense- you enjoy women and men, but in your fantasies, you prefer to see two women together, whereas men seem to do it more in real life.

Those are some possiblities I can think of. Basically, if you feel you're straight, don't worry about sexual orientation- tons of people watch porn that depicts other sexualities than their own, and unless they want to go out and do that in real life, it's just a spicy fantasy life and open-mindedness. Enjoy it!

Hope that helps you.

Answer 2

Nothing to worry about. As long as you're happy and you're not doing anyone any harm...