I think i might be gay, what do I do?
2007-01-31 18:07:28 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
1) Give yourself a hug.
2) Start a journal
3) Find a support group for gay and/or questioning people with your local gay and lesbian center. It's a good place to hear other's experiences, talk about your own, get some support, and make some friends. If that is not an option for you, find someone you can trust to talk to. Some organizations have telephone hotlines for people to call into just to talk.
4) Understand that things take time. You may find that you are gay, you may find that you are not. If you are gay, coming-out is a continuous process. There's one big wave, and then a bunch of smaller ones.
5) Focus on taking care of yourself. Ask yourself what you need. Support? To talk to people?
6) You do not have to do something with someone of the same sex to determine whether or not your are gay. I figured out I was gay when I was 19, out car shopping, and found that I couldn't stop talking to the salesman. Go figure.
7) Enjoy yourself, educate yourself on safe sex, remember that life is short
8) Know that as confusing or scary as things can seem, it all works out and is totally worth it. If you come to realize you are gay and later come out, believe me, you'll ask yourself why you didn't come out sooner.
Good luck, sunshine.
2007-01-31 18:45:33 · answer #1 · answered by chico fantastico 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you are gay, it is not bad. Being gay is normal, and there are millions of people who are gay. This may just be a phase, I've done the same thing. And i experimented with porn, touching, and other things. It takes months, maybe even years to figure these things out. If you are gay, learn to except it. I dont know if you are gay, but I don't think you are because you don't want to suck dck
2015-02-15 17:46:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sacrifice 7 goats and the blood of a virgin to the God of Gay.
Just kidding!
You do nothing! It doesn't matter if you're gay. Who cares? If you want, go find a support group. But other than that, just have fun (and don't do drugs)!
2015-02-06 12:10:00 · answer #3 · answered by Kai 1 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Start living the gay lifestyle.
2007-01-31 18:12:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
whatever you're doing now. the sun will still shine, you will still breathe and love is still out there.
You might try some online searches for groups and organisations with who you can gain a sense of self.
Start with the one below
2007-01-31 22:51:01 · answer #5 · answered by unclefrunk 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
enjoy it
2007-01-31 18:13:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋