i've been masturbating for years!i'm tired of it but can let go of it:-(
help me
i'm a 20-year-old boy,university student,think that may be a help.
2007-01-31 18:03:21 · 11 answers · asked by sarah f 1 in Health ➔ Men's Health
Look man
You now by this bad habit, utilizing your body health, your ability to satisfy you wife, and you will damage you reproductive system
(these damaging process not happen at once but on a long time)
To STOP it (if you want really to stop)
*It is a phycological condition because brain is the largest sex organ
1-Be busy, think in something such as a research with deeply thinking
2-Don't watch any movies encharge you to do this
3-If you has a desire, go to bath to get a COLD wash but if you think in it, finish your bath immediately
4-Don't be alone for long time, be with your friends(good boys) or spend along time with your family
-If your family for example go out, try to go with them and don't stay at home alone
5-Consider it as a war and you will be the winner
-I f you want to be a MAN after marriage and not your wife's sister, stop this BAD habit
Ok
2007-01-31 20:27:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well Sarah, I don't think you should stop. Why deny yourself the satisfaction and release that you can achieve by quitting. Are you prepared to give up the fantasy that you are a girl too. I think you should stop and think about yourself for a while. You are a guy, you want to be a girl judging from your Yahoo name. You likely become sexually aroused when you become a girl. This leads to masturbation and the release of tension. There is nothing wrong with having these kinds of feelings. Lots of people do. Seek out other guys who have the similar feelings and desires. IN this day and age there is nothing that says you gotta be what mother nature first made you. Don't stop.
2007-01-31 22:33:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its a good thing you're deciding to stop, when you eventually get married it could cause a problem with your wife.
I think it works almost the same as quitting smoking, when you feel the urge to masturbate rather get up and go for a walk or exercise. Do something that keeps you busy and takes your mind off the feeling to masturbate, you'll see after a little while the thought and feeling will pass
2007-01-31 19:40:33 · answer #3 · answered by Tabby T 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You will continue to masterbate until you die.
To quit the proccess is as insane as to never pee again.
Perhaps you can try to do it less, but you will still have to do it eventually.
It is a natural process of the body.
It is not a sin... as some may say.
If you decide to never do it, you will have a thought life obcessed with sexual thoughts.... it is distracting and annoying and the only way to control this is to masterbate.
using porn offsets your cycle and afftects your hormones causeing you to lust more and masterbate too much...
Porn is bad... and potentially unhealthy to your mind and body.
When you feel the pressure to, just go somewhere privatly and do it.
Like when you have to pee, go to the bathroom and pee.
...There is no reason to be ahamed of it. It is a private thing. It is a natural thing. It is part of life.
-A Christian
2007-01-31 18:16:22 · answer #4 · answered by Mr. Agappae 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you want to quit masturbation? If you're still doing it then that means you're not tired of it, doesn't it? There's no reason to quit.
2007-01-31 18:14:05 · answer #5 · answered by Corrida 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why stop? its normal, gee you should just be starting, but it doesnt matter. it wont make any difference to your studies, your growth or anything else and it will help keep you from wanting to get into sex with others, which gets you in real trouble, so dont worry about it, do your thing in private and just keep doing your school work.
2007-01-31 19:21:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wish i knew. i don't think stopping will help, cuz then you'll just think about sex even more. i've been masturbating longer than you've been alive, and i can't quit. i enjoy it, but it does waste a lot of time.
2007-01-31 18:08:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know its ok to masturbate (i do it!) but excessively! i guess u need a companion. get a girlfriend, not to get u laid, but as someone to share your feelings with. it may be a start to focussing on other greater things in life (other than to masturbate!). think about it.
2007-01-31 18:10:54 · answer #8 · answered by mombok 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a girlfriend.. Universities are filled with them..
2007-01-31 18:06:02 · answer #9 · answered by BigWashSr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's a solution, just jerk off forty times straight and that'll make u never want to do it again because u'll feel so filthy
2007-01-31 18:26:01 · answer #10 · answered by F1reflyfan 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋