she has been very abusive and tells my by that is he marries me she will never keep a realtionship with him. i have mongolite fetures and he is an indian. she hates me coz i am a nepali.
2007-01-31 17:38:28 · 5 answers · asked by blessed damozel 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
screw her if she abusive physically and/or emotionally forget about her and elope ! if you dont wanna be so drastic try to make things work with her but remember she just wants control and when she cant have it she gets pissed
2007-01-31 17:43:13 · answer #1 · answered by jinx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you seriously considering marriage?
Marry the man and you marry his mother. Actually, you would be lucky if she broke off all relationship with him and you. My guess is, she'd enjoy herself more giving you grief for the rest of her life. Do you really want this? Now multiply that grief by the number of kids you have. Ummm????
If your BF has the b*lls to tell his mother where to go, he might be a keeper. If he wants nothing more than to please his mum, you might want to lose him--and his crummy mother.
2007-01-31 17:43:58 · answer #2 · answered by katbyrd41 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my goodness! Your tale breaks my heart. ?? the first element you opt on to do is to confirm a lawyer. i don't understand what style of get proper of entry to you ought to legal aspects yet there should be some style of legal help accessible to you. i'm assuming you do not have a lot funds because you're so youthful. verify which includes your college counsellors to confirm what style of advice they could grant you with. You first of all decide on to envision custody and baby help for the toddler you're pregnant with. then you absolutely can look into what your legal concepts are for custody of Angel. try to be very careful immediately now to not enable him discover out what you're as a lot as. contact a females's abuse centre to confirm what your concepts are for leaving this pig you're with. he isn't any guy, it truly is for particular. in spite of in case you may not take Angel with you, you ought to smash out your self. Angel will probably be positioned into foster care or be taken remote from Emilio. Even it really is better effective than both of you staying and being abused. yet extremely, be careful because the most deadly time for a female isn't at the same time as she's contained in the relationship, yet after she chooses to end it. Abusers many times grow to be enraged and obsessive and that is that element it truly is the most deadly for a female leaving the region. Have achieveable-free position to flow the position he can not in any respect get proper of entry to you. change your route to college and your agenda if in any respect available so as that he can not actual discover you. solid success honey! There are aspects available for you. you'll decide on to be sturdy. i'm praying for you.
2016-12-03 07:40:37 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know, if she does keep a relationship with your bf, that is just bullshit. Trust me, one day she will be calling him for some help. Trust me, parents say that now and they will regret it later. True love never dies.
2007-01-31 17:41:37 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he doesn't stand up for you now, he never will...
you will need to decide how much influence she will have on your lives together and decide if it will be worth the pain - or not...
2007-01-31 17:43:26 · answer #5 · answered by j_mang 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋