I called her Queen the first 5 or 6 months of her life but she dont even respond to that name. Some times in i say Ashley come here, she will come . But if i just say,"Ashley" she wont come or look at me. So I think she just knows what come here means. Is this ok or normal??
2007-01-31 17:38:28 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Newborn & Baby
I am no expert on child development, but I would try something simple first. Do a daily excercise with her... Stand in the mirror with her and say "Who is this?" point to yourself and say "Mommy" then you can point to her and do the same....... It may take awhile but try to name things during the day. Point to the dog or cat and say "This is "Kitty's name" " then take her back to the mirror in the evening and do that same excercise.....
If this does not work, you may want to explore hearing... I know it sounds odd, but my nephew had hearing problem that we never knew about till he was about 4. He seemed to understand many commands but calling out his name and name only never seemed to get a response. Maybe children need more to stimulate their reactions - who knows. If you want to test your child initially for hearing. Stand behind your child and say "Where is Ashley" or try just the single name.............. Good Luck
2007-01-31 17:47:22 · answer #1 · answered by VocalistGirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Again, as everyone else has said, see if you can get her hearing checked. Also, why did you change from "Queen" to "Ashley?" Some children simply develop differently. You might want to have an evaluation for the autistic spectrum. I know, I likely just scared the hell out of you, but don't worry, I'm not suggesting your daughter is Autistic. But, if she does respond to objects better than to other people (play by herself, is very advanced with mechanical toys), then she might have Aspergers Syndrome. She may simply be more interested in her current activity than in turning around to answer you.
I would check with your family doctor first, do a bit of research online, and then go to get her hearing checked.
But remember, don't worry too much. She'll be just fine no matter the outcome if she knows you love her.
2007-02-01 02:14:55 · answer #2 · answered by Dante 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first off stick to one name if the girls name is Ashley then call her that only.
next she might have a hearing problem have you considered that ? When she is asleep can you wake her by just speaking or do you have to touch her?
overall no your girl should know her name but don't go freaking out about this call her Ashley all the time when or if she comes to that name cheer her on hugs and kisses
one thing to do is make sure your not causing her to have a hearing problem don't go blasting your radio or whatever children's hearing is very sensitive so turn it down.
2007-02-01 01:49:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it is not normal the baby should know her name by name.. It doesn't matter that you called her a nickname before because I called my little boy buy his nickname, his first name and his whole name.. He responds to them all.. since she is almost a year old you may want to ask her physician.. But you said she responds to come here so you know she can hear.. Or are you doing like certain hand gestures when she does it... My first thought was maybe she has a hearing problem..But ... so definitely talk to your doctor because it isn't normal.
2007-02-01 02:39:42 · answer #4 · answered by killazbabygirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My son is 27 months old and only in the last few months has figured out who we are talking to when we call his name, even though we played "who is it" nearly everyday for a long time.
Some children don't have a sense of self until around age 2, for some it means they won't answer to their name until then as well. Sometimes it is because the child is confused if they have multiple nicknames, which my son had a handful.
2007-02-01 01:54:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some say that when children don't respond to their name by their first birthday that it could be a sign of Autism. Although this is not always the case and every child is different. It could also be related to hearing problems or a number of other things. I would discuss this with your pediatrician just to put your mind at ease.
2007-02-01 02:30:43 · answer #6 · answered by AngelBaby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have your child evaluated by an ENT. Your doc should give you a referral. When she gets older she may need to be seen by a speech therapist. You should be able to find an early intervention program. Mention your concern to your pediatrician and they should be able to give you a referral to the best place to go. You're always better safe than sorry, sometimes there are middle ear issues and/or the need for speech therapy services to make sure she'll be ready for school by age 5.
2007-02-01 02:08:43 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure you'll get a lot of anwsers saying to get her hearing checked... and that's what I think you should do too.
2007-02-01 01:43:15 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't worry she will get it, use her name often, it's ok theres a lot to learn when you just start out don't worry
2007-02-01 01:56:43 · answer #9 · answered by melissa s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a child psychologist to validate my thoughts.... Please get a specialist... its bothering
2007-02-01 01:42:01 · answer #10 · answered by Jawo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋