why do i feel guilty after 4kids and begin married for 8years to my high school sweetheart? i got married when i was 18 years old my husband join the navy and we being moving state to state. we both cheated on each when we was younger now im 26 i just find out he cheated on me again on our annivsery. his sorry i forgive him. now i think its time to move on cause im not happy. is it normal to feel guilty about leaving?
2007-01-31 17:30:32 · 5 answers · asked by lakeshia w 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No I think that what you are feeling is normal after he cheated.If you are not happy then it is better to leave than do what he did to you.
2007-01-31 18:37:40 · answer #1 · answered by DESTINY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ive never been divorced so I really don't know. Ive been married for 10 years now and am still very happy. I don't think you should feel guilty about leaving and I don't think you should stay for the kids, that's the worst thing you can do, an unhappy marriage brings up unhappy kids.
2007-02-01 01:39:11 · answer #2 · answered by Mrs. Shrek 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its perfectly normal. If I'm understanding you, maybe you feel like you don't want to hurt him by leaving. But if you are not happy then you need to do what's best. But make sure you think about your 4 kids too while doing this. Think of the impact it will have on them. After all, it is their dad.
2007-02-01 01:37:28 · answer #3 · answered by Iggy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure you feel guilty about moving on?......or about cheating?
2007-02-01 02:26:15 · answer #4 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHY OF COURSE SILLY! But its something you gotta do! ya know? Wow on your annivsery!? what an ***...
2007-02-01 01:37:48 · answer #5 · answered by Tracey Lee ♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋