today at school, the two kids behind me in class kept shooting rubberbands at my back (and it hurt like hell). then one of them hit me in the back of the head, and then my eyes started to water, then i got up from my seat, walked to them, and punched him in the back so hard, that it couldve broken his spine if a little harder. than i moved to a different seat and sat there with red watery eyes. im scared to go to school tommorow cuz i cant figure whether people will tease me about crying, or praise me about the punch.
2007-01-31 17:14:06 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
im in 8th grade.
2007-02-01 10:31:12 · update #1
i know violence is not the answer... but...
2007-02-01 10:31:27 · update #2
One thing you need to realise, is that when people lose their temper, they do start crying.
I've been there and done that. Only I punched him in the face and knocked out two of his teeth.
I think the kids in your class will think twice about taking the mick out of a bit if crying in case you hit them.
And to those who say violence is not the answer - bullies only understand violence. The only way to get them to leave you alone is to push them harder than they push you. At the end of the day, most bullies are cowards - they pick on the kids who they think won't retaliate. A good right hook will sort most bullies out.
2007-02-01 10:45:24 · answer #1 · answered by Andrew W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if they say something tomorrow or keep shooting rubberbands, ask to go to the guidence couseler. i had the same problem and the teacher for that class sent my work to the couseler and i did my work up there. dont feel like a crybaby. and dont use violence as the answer. theres always a better way, but i know its hard now because thats the first thing you think of
good luck
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2007-01-31 18:43:56 · answer #2 · answered by chelsღ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go to school and if anyone teases you about the crying just dont do anything. Kids tease because they want to see a reaction from you. They wanna see you get angry or upset again. Just walk away from them and they will leave you alone.
2007-01-31 18:03:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dont seem very old. Are you in like sixth grade?
The thing with the "i coulda broke his spine" is telling me this.
Well, no one is going to praise you for a punch, and if your really in sixth grade or something, they may tease you about crying for about a week. Itll pass. Dont worry
2007-01-31 17:24:58 · answer #4 · answered by andrewoverboard 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about what they say just ignore them. They were the ones childish enough to be shooting rubberbands across the room.
2007-01-31 19:52:28 · answer #5 · answered by jasmyn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are right violence is not the answer. i want to congratulate you on seeing that violence is not the answer at your age. most kids don't. they will probably do both tomorrow but don't worry. crying is not a weakness, it is a sign of strengh. that's right it is a sign of strength. a person has to be stronger to cry than not. just ignore them. they are not worth your time and energy. hope this helps. good luck.
2007-02-01 16:24:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are younger than 12 years old it's ok! But if you're not you're a PUSSY! I would've teased you if I was in your class! You should've ended it with the punch that way you will have a good reputation!
2007-02-01 01:34:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They'll more than likely praise you for the punch because he very much deserved it.
Next time, sit behind the jerks and pester them.
2007-02-01 03:41:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pain is pain, all of us feel it and most of us have shed a few tears, don't worry about it-they look even more stupid because they got punched in the spine.
2007-02-01 00:13:17 · answer #9 · answered by Urchin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am much older than you and have cried in front of people and am not ashamed were all human . Always hold your head high and look everyone in the eye .
2007-01-31 17:26:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋