how would you feel if you grew up and found out that you were the result of someone being raped?
2007-01-31 16:35:13 · 8 answers · asked by none 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I would feel a lot of different ways: hurt because of all the turmoil she went through, guilty because I would think i reminded her of the rapist but overall happy and proud because my mother loved me and wanted me regardless of what happended in the past.
2007-01-31 16:43:24 · answer #1 · answered by keyon's mom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All I can say to that is you shouldn't feel any different then you do. You are who you are and not who you came from. However you were concieved does not matter and someone must have loved you very much to give birth to after such an intense personal trauma. If anything you should feel more special that someone loved you so much that they gave you the gift of life. You are your own individual and anyone that judges you for any other reason than the person you are, is not someone worth knowing. Hope this helps you a little.
2007-02-01 00:43:46 · answer #2 · answered by natasha v 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I would feel mostly confused. But let me say that if I were
raped and ended up pregnant I would keep the child because the child isn't to blame and is an innocent life. If I were you I wouldn't feel too bad. You were supposed to come here and be loved.
2007-02-01 00:43:32 · answer #3 · answered by jenn 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would be thankful that my mother decided to keep me, instead of getting rid of me. I would fiind a way to tell her that too. Don't forget, just because your father was a rapist, doesn't make you a monster. He was sick, no doubt, but rape is never about sex, it was about control and power over another person. You have to learn that, it's not in the genes. You are a good person and will not follow in his footsteps.
2007-02-01 00:41:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would be really sad, but not about me being the result, but for my mother who had to go through all that pain and suffering and probably depression. instead of feeling sorry for myself I'd feel sorry for my mom, after all that not only did she get raped but she also stuck by my side and had me. sometimes you shouldnt think about yourself, you should think about the person that had to go through all that pain.
2007-02-01 00:53:09 · answer #5 · answered by Diana_Is_Amazing 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will respect my mother even more
She went through hell and still she decided to keep me that is one hell of a woman to be able to brought up a child and not blaming him for any of it
I have to admire such a woman
If i was raped i would never had kept the baby, it would constantly remind me of what happened.
2007-02-01 00:40:08 · answer #6 · answered by SAgirl 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I would be proud of my mum for doing right by me in the hardest of circumstances.
2007-02-01 00:40:00 · answer #7 · answered by littlelapin 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I will still love my mom,it wasnt her fault
2007-02-01 00:40:46 · answer #8 · answered by lilparis_12 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋