iam 20 yrs old and i am a virgin and i feel embarassed or scared to have sex.. i never let my self go too far..wat should ido?
2007-01-31 16:29:11 · 8 answers · asked by sandwich :p 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
There's nothing wrong with being a virgin. You'll one day find the man who you'll be comfortable with. Don't worry about it, just enjoy life and romance. And when you finally decide to go all the way, hopefully you'll make love and not have sex.
2007-01-31 16:52:28 · answer #1 · answered by wrtrchk 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Carla,
The first thing that you need to do is RELAX. It's ok that you have not had a sexual relationship yet. You have plenty of time for that.
It's imperative that you find the right person to be with. A person that you're comfortable with, and relaxed around. And above all, a person you're in LOVE with. That's the most important factor.
When you make that connection, you're going to want to become closer to that person, and all those things will fall into place in the manner and time they should. Don't let yourself be pressured, or pressure yourself into a sexual relationship just for the sole purpose of saying that you had one. If you're not comfortable right now, then you go with that. There's no shame whatsoever, it's ok.
There is a right time, a right place, and a right person for you. And when that comes together, it will be a pleasant experience for you, as it should be.
Blessings!
2007-02-01 00:44:44 · answer #2 · answered by C J 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait until you feel comfortable. There is no time limit for being a virgin. Don't feel that you have to have sex, simply because you are a certain age.
2007-02-04 22:51:55 · answer #3 · answered by aqx99 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am 19 years old and i am a virgin too...i have only had one boyfriend (the current one) and I don't plan on giving my virginity to him anytime soon...make sure you love the person...love them and being entirely comfortable with them is the only way that you are going to be comfortable having sex with him...my boyfriend respects my decision and knows what i have and havent been through and is extremely understanding...find someone you love first...it doesnt just lead to sex...talk to the person...make them understand...and if they love you and want to be with you then they will do anything in their power to make you comfortable.
good luck
2007-02-01 00:53:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should never have sex unless you are absolutely sure that it is the right thing to do at that moment and you are positive about it. You'll know when you are ready--there is this feeling inside of you.
2007-02-01 00:40:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't do anything that you don't feel comfortable doing! You should wait until you're with the right person! You'll be much happier! Good Luck! :)
2007-02-01 01:12:41 · answer #6 · answered by Mom of 3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have sex!!!!!!!!!!! im 19 lost it when i was 15 i no a bit too young im surprised u r a virgin not very manygirls keep it as lon as u it hurts for a sec dont b scared
2007-02-01 14:13:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll know when you're ready. Dont do anything before then.
2007-02-01 01:09:31 · answer #8 · answered by Christine T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋