how do i prove myself to a girl that i really like........... she says that shes not ready but i proposed an idea and it was to start slow as a couple and then after we met and get together if she likes me we can stay together and than after a while get into a more serious relationship....... she said i dont really know so i said well if i prove myself ...she said ok i guess..........
so my question is....how do i prove myself to a girl showinf her how much i care about her and im willing to do everything it takes for her to be happy?
2007-01-31 16:02:39 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
Do exactly what you just said: Do whatever it takes to make her happy. Nothing is more important to a girl than someone who adores her, but isn't overbearing. And if she still doesn't think she wants to be with you, respect her. A girl will respect, well, respect.
2007-01-31 16:09:50 · answer #1 · answered by Lauren S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be a friend, but always make your romantic intentions clear by saying things slightly out of friend-realm, like that she's beautiful, or buying things that a friend wouldn't buy. When a girl says she's not ready it usually means she can't imagine integrating another human into her world because she's busy enough as it is! Show her that you can lighten her load with casual massages and funny stories. Then, work your way into her life with fun dates (comedians over movies, fun dinners over expensive ones, parks instead of outdoor malls, etc)
2007-02-01 00:09:57 · answer #2 · answered by fair_gwenofair 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Suprise her! Do things that she wouldn't expect. Like Flowers, candy, a suprise evening out...not ending with sex...you gotta prove to her that you are about more than that. Make her want you, make her feel like she is the only woman in the world, i.e. don't check out other girls while you are with her. good luck
2007-02-01 02:42:57 · answer #3 · answered by 1.2..3...Boo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is just the beginning and you sound over the top. You don't need to prove anything. Flowers are fine.
2007-02-01 00:31:30 · answer #4 · answered by dorothy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Treat her like a lady.
Open the door for her.
Look at her when she's talking.
Smile at her alot.
Don't push her too hard.
Don't try to go fast.
Send her a greeting card- Valentines is coming up!
Back off if she isn't interested.
GOOD LUCK!!!
2007-02-01 00:20:08 · answer #5 · answered by diannegoodwin@sbcglobal.net 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"an idea and it was to start slow as a couple and then after we met and get together if she likes me we can stay together "
SO, you've never MET before??
2007-02-01 01:17:06 · answer #6 · answered by lovebugger 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree. Do what you said. Ladies like men who are confident but not cocky, strong but not threatening, and who show they care without suffocating us.
2007-02-01 00:12:36 · answer #7 · answered by ama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋