1. Im not let them going inside of her ill removed it before it going thru.
2. What are the best way to abort it, coz im not ready for that.
2007-01-31 16:02:14 · 24 answers · asked by Boieforsure 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
K.. here are a few things you should know. Withdrawl, or pulling out, is less then 45% effective for birth control. There are sperm present in pre-ejaculation, and it only takes one to do it. You're best bet for birth control is abstinence- or not having sex, but since the deed is done, that won't help you now.
Abortion is never the best answer. I know you aren't ready for a kid, but you had sex, which can always lead to a baby. The best right now is for her to have the baby and give it up for adoption. That way, someone who is ready for a baby, and has been waiting for a special person to come into their lives, gets a chance at that dream. Abortion doesn't solve anything. It can compound the problem more then you will ever realize. And if she doesn't want to do that, there is nothing you can do to make her. It's her body, and she has the right to say no to abortion if she doesn't feel it is right.
On the other hand, if she decides to keep the baby, you have to be prepared to take responsibility for this child. You chose to have sex with her, and because of that, you need to be responsible for your actions. This isn't what you want to hear, I'm sure, but it's the truth. Guys have as much responsibility in making babies and supporting them as women do.
2007-01-31 16:19:32 · answer #1 · answered by odd duck 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you mean, what are the best ways to abort it? It's not like 'what are the best ways to get rid of an old tire' or 'what are the best ways to get rid of grime'. Abortion is a serious procedure and she will need to see a physician to have it done, if that's what she wants. And you'd better work a few extra hours because an abortion is not cheap. You should have thought about this before you refused to use reliable birth control.
2007-02-01 00:14:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Uh, because the withdrawal method is not effective, and most people over the age of 16 know that. That's why it's known as "pull and pray."
The best way to abort it? It's not your choice. It doesn't matter if YOU aren't ready. You should've used a condom. If SHE wants to abort, then she can call her doctor/Planned Parenthood/women's clinic and ask for information.
2007-02-01 00:07:54 · answer #3 · answered by Morning Glory 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The "pull out" method doesn't work. Pre *** can lead to pregnancy as well, didn't u take a health class in school?
and as far as the abortion goes, if u weren't ready to be a father you should not have had sex! Happy parenting, Dad!
2007-02-01 00:16:09 · answer #4 · answered by Who Me? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The reason she is pregnant is because of a little thing call pre come...where you ejaculate some of your little fellas without knowing or feeling it. Only fool proof way to avoid a pregnancy is abstinance, but since that obviously isnt going to happen WEAR A CONDOM!!!! As for #2...Let her decide...its her baby too...plus I know many people who would adopt that can't have children. Its not an IT its a life that deserves a chance.
2007-02-01 00:08:01 · answer #5 · answered by angie 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You don't have any control over it if you're not using a condom, and it only takes one! By the way, you sure aren't ready to be a father if you can't even use a condom, and it's not really up to you any more anyway. You already did your part.
2007-02-01 00:12:50 · answer #6 · answered by mom of 2 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If that the way you write shows you intelligence, then you are definitely not ready for parenthood. She can, however, get pregnant from precum, so withdrawing doesn't always work. Also, you can't abort it, that has to be HER decision. You can't force her to.
2007-02-01 00:07:53 · answer #7 · answered by Kimi 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Never have unprotected sex unless you are prepared for the...well pregy as you call it. Sounds to me like you've never read about the CONDOM. Moron. I hope she knows about your plan to abort it for her with no help from a Physician. JERK
2007-02-01 00:10:05 · answer #8 · answered by nachtrieb2 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Honey obvious the way you write is the way you think about sex... The withdrawal method is not a sure thing a girl can get pregnant by pre c u m...
2007-02-01 00:05:41 · answer #9 · answered by Princess 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
withdrawal is not good birth control you are asking to pregnant. Even though you pull out you still have precum which is highly potent. Too late now and why punush the kid due to your lack of education?
2007-02-01 00:07:16 · answer #10 · answered by k 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋