i cheated on my boyfriend 2 days after my period i had sex with this guy from my work without a condom and im not on the pill he didnt come in me but right around that time i got pragnet i ave been with my boyfriend for 2 years and i never got pragnet and now all of a sudden i am does that mean that the other guy is the babys dad?
2007-01-31 15:57:08 · 25 answers · asked by ashley d 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
hey babe dont worry andtry andwork out the dates. What you need to do is work out when you last slept wiith your current bloke as i would say it is highly unlikely to have fallen pregnant two days after your period. But it is possible. You really do need to talk to someone about this as it will eat you up in side if you dont.
2007-02-02 23:11:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say he didn't come inside you - but those little blighters (sperm) are quite determined and some can creep out before you or he knows it.
The only way you will know for certain who the parent is by DNA testing.
Now you will need to take some very responsible action to make up for that which perhaps was not so responsible for many reasons. (Never heard of safe sex!!!! - Lordy he could have given you anything) You owe it to your boyfriend, yourself and the baby first of all to get yourself screened for any diseases this guy might have given you.
Then you must decide how you will handle the business of paternity. It is always best to do things earlier rather than later. If things unravel now, it is better than it happening 5 years down the line should your boy get suspicions then. Whoever is responsible for giving you the child should bear some financial responsibility in this and it might not be your boyfriend. However what is most important is for you to obtain some support. You really ought to talk it over with him.
What ever you do - take this as a hard lesson learned. Hope you manage to straighten things out with him and all goes well for you in the future. Honestly our genitalia ought to come with DANGER printed all over them.
2007-01-31 16:48:53 · answer #2 · answered by stgoodric 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not neccerarily, the only way to determine who's the dad is a paternity test. The real issue is have you been honest with your boyfriend about the other guy? Just would be a good idea if ou haven't just in case it is the other guys, or he wants to know if it's his. I really wish you good luck.
Also, don't feel too bad about the other answers you recieved, everyone makes mistakes, noone is perfect.I think that is one of the problems here, you didn't ask for their opion on what you did, only an answer for what it might mean. Also, the same people that corrected your spelling used improper grammar! And I hope you the BEST.
2007-01-31 16:04:25 · answer #3 · answered by Thia K 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
oh dear. why are so many people wearing blinkers and not realising that some people make mistakes. im going to give you the same advice to sort out a paternity test after the birth, although it is best to broach the subject with you boyfriend before the baby arrives, but also, you have my sympathy. i have made mistakes as has everyone. some people make once only life changing mistakes and others make numerous small mistakes constantly throughout life. the people who make small mistakes generally fail to spot what they have done wrong and don't think about the people they upset. therefore they prey on people who make a bigger mistake than them to justify that theirs wasnt so bad. please ignore these people and don't let them get you down. do not dwell, but focus on the problem, think of a way to resolve the problem and go ahead and work on it. it the best anyone can do in a situation like this. im not saying it is easy, but it has to be done. you have my support so believe in yourself and be brave. good luck
2007-02-01 00:42:37 · answer #4 · answered by Chanters 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u shouldnt have cheated on your boyfriend in the first place but now you need to think of your unborn baby, if you decide to continue with the pregnancy then you will need to be honest with both guys involved and explain the situation to them, then when the baby is born you will need a dna test done. I cant say it will be easy for you as until you know who the dad is they wont be obliged to help you out financially with the baby and no fathers name will be able to go on the birth certificate. YOU SHOULD LEARN A LESSON FROM THIS
2007-01-31 21:00:46 · answer #5 · answered by thedaddy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yikes. Unless you know EXACTLY when you ovulate... there is no way to tell who the father is at this point. My friend was with her boyfriend for 2 & 1/2 years, having unprotected sex, before they got pregnant... so, NO, it doesn't necessarily mean that the other guy is the father. Most women don't ovulate right after their periods... BUT you never know. You can ovulate at varying times in varying months. So... it's impossible at this point to know who fathered the baby.
2007-01-31 16:21:58 · answer #6 · answered by Haulie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How could you do such a thing to the man that you love??? The only way for you to be 100% on the babies daddy is a paternity test! and for this to happen you will really need to speak with your partner about what you have done. Just be honest and hope for the best!
Good Luck and i hope all works out well for you!
God bless
2007-01-31 16:03:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Oh, dear.....
Put it off and it'll all happen after your baby is born, is that something you are prepared for? And could you do
that to a baba?
I was a single parent for 4 years,and ultimately that's gonna be the biggest fear for you. (?) It's not horrible, and you pay loads more attentionto your kids cause they dont have to share you. (one way of looking at it) but are you going to stand by yourself and be honest to not just others, but yourself too?
Couldn't be that much love there if it that happens....
2007-01-31 17:29:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is possible but most people ovulate 2 weeks after their period so if u weren't ovulating I would say no. Were u also having sex with your boyfriend at this time (and 2 weeks after ur period?) and also does your BF know you cheated?
2007-01-31 16:06:15 · answer #9 · answered by Who Me? 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do you intend to make your boyfriend responsible for your actions? Will he have to spend the next 18 years paying child support for a kid that may not be his?
Facts are, if you'll cheat on him now, you'll cheat again, and a normal, self-respecting person won't stay with a cheater.
Now you have to figure out who's going to pay for your mistake, the boyfriend, the office buddy, the child or you?
2007-01-31 16:10:08 · answer #10 · answered by Merris 3 · 5⤊ 1⤋