2007-01-31 15:48:59 · 8 answers · asked by sanj s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
go to the doctor
2007-01-31 15:52:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel very sorry for you. I dont thik you are preverted or anything like that. If an average man said what you said in you title I would lay into them hard and call them all the names under the sun. But by what you have been through it in no wonder you are confused. With bening 19 your still a teenager and your hormonesr are everywere at the best of times. What it sounds like is that because of your time in isotation your idea of attrativeness has not mattured with you body. Yoy might still see yourself as when you enterd your isolation. Thererfor you are attracted to younger girls. It would be easy to say hang around with people your own age but this in your case is hard. I can see that. Social phobia must be very hard to cover come and it will take time. I think in your mind you need to get your head arond that you have grown up and that being attracted to 13 year old girls is not appropriate. Try to studie the adult woman body. See what is attractive. The whole of a woman figure is attractive. Weahter you like skinny, fat, tall, small, black, white, asian. All grown woman are beautiful. That is all down to your prefferance. Try to think that nothing about a thirteen year old child is attractive. They are as I said a child. They are still young and have no adult quolities about them. You have made the first step for telling your councelor. This means you know the feeling you have are wrong and need to be sorted. Be brave and work hard to become the wonderful adult I think you have the chance of becoming.
2016-05-24 00:49:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are a person of color, it is just a freckle (or a flat mole). I have one too (freckle) on the side of my pinky finger. However, if you notice that the spot is changing in definition or it is not clearly defined in the first place, go check it out.
Hope that helps. Why is this question posted in marriage and divorce?
2007-02-01 04:13:19 · answer #3 · answered by Grendel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Birthmark... That is all it is but i would go to a doctor if you were not born with it and i would get it checked out. Could even be a mole.
2007-01-31 15:54:02 · answer #4 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be serious get a doctor to look. Skin cancers can be serious but the ealier they are found the better
2007-01-31 15:52:18 · answer #5 · answered by smilingtalker_au 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you recently slam your finger in a door?
2007-01-31 15:54:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is is a birth mark or a mole?
2007-01-31 15:52:44 · answer #7 · answered by Isabela 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get it checked by a docter might be skin cancer
2007-02-04 05:15:44 · answer #8 · answered by sweetgranny06 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋