How do you handle people who always meddle in your life and feel they are the authority on everything?

Question

I know some people who thinks they know everything. ANd they make it a point they are involved in the life of other people. They never want to admit they are wrong and make sure everything is is in their favor. It's not that I let them in mine, but I just can't imagine how these people can just think things and ways that would benefit them.

Answer 1

I would stand up to people and tell them off...
I would say, "Look at your messed up LIFE".

Answer 2

There will always be people like this. The quickest way to deal with them? Tell them straight up that they piss you off by being a nosy busy-body. If you like them and it's a recent bad habit... let them know in a kinder way, and hope they don't take it wrong and get pissed at you.

Answer 3

you can do nothing. This is because they are majestic minions from hell, sent to bother the f outta you, cuz your in a matrix world, where the controller is a demonic entity who sees it fit to keep you in eternal suffering and damnation in hell.

The demonic entity gathers its satisfaction from your eternal torment and preys on your sadness and tears; it feeds on your tears. It uses your longing to build you up, just to have you crumbling down in the final wake, this generates more sadness and tears which composes its daily diet of food.

I guess it accomplishes this by giving you 'rewards' and then just as you think you have the right path it smacks you down .It does this constantly,messing with you, and out of surprising curveballs so that it can keep on being the annoying little buthole its always been, keeping the suffering and damnation intense constantly. It resorts to these tactics, because it knows that if it gave you constant pain, pain would turn to pleasure (study sadism) and you wouldn't try, which is not very entertaining to your it, And that would leave it (the annoying little bit,ch) unsatisfied. This is why it must make you try, by giving the appearance you have a chance and stirring your soul, building you up..just to crush you later, making you realize the folly, which is what gives it the most satisfaction.

Answer 4

If it causes too much of a problem then I consider them a negative energy in my life and cut them loose. People like that just bring you down. I try and surround myself with supportive, positive energy.

Answer 5

Does this character Flaw upset you??The first thing i do is listen to what they say, I find that some people are frustraited teacher and they do know a great deal about most everything. I find that when i see flaw in others and it upsets me, it is always MY FLAW being reflected back to me.

Answer 6

let go of these people , if not stay away from them. How indeed did you know they were following up on you if you weren't nosy enough yourself to know they were after you. Ignore them totally and stay away from them, in all kinds of communication.

Answer 7

I ignore them and their advice, doing what I choose to do instead.

Over time when they realize they can neither control nor influence your decisions, they will hopefully move on and annoy someone else.

If they're insistent and continue to annoy you, then direct and firm confrontation is appropriate.

Answer 8

You just need to be courageous enough to tell them to mind their own damned business. Do this a time or two and they will stop bothering you.

Answer 9

The person who opens the door must be the one who closes it.

Answer 10

I don't tell those people anything I don't want them to know. Keep it to yourself if you don't want to hear their rambling on.