I already ordered books on Asperger's Syndrome, but it will take time to be shipped, at the mean time some first-aid guidelines would be very helpful to me. Please Help.
2007-01-31 15:32:40 · 7 answers · asked by seian_j 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
First off, everyone with Aspbergers is different. They are impacted differently, and the severity of their condition can vary widely from barely noticeable to impacting everything they think and do. They are human beings to start with. So treat them as a human individual first and foremost. Many have learned to cope very well with the unique way their brain perceives the world.
Now, one basic rule of thumb is to be aware that your partner may take things very literally. When children are asked to write the days of the week they write: Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday, etc. But, a child with Aspbergers might write: The days of the week.
Depending upon the education and experience of your partner, he or she may have learned how to generalize much better than that. It is just an example.
Another characteristic of Aspbergers is an affinity for mathematics, computers, and other predictable systems. They tend to prefer predictable schedules as well. Some handle disruption of routine better than others, but this is not usually the sort of person who will enjoy doing things differently just because.
I hope you learn much from your partner.
2007-01-31 15:44:42 · answer #1 · answered by inkantra 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Bill Gates has been diagnosed with Aspergers. Many with this condition are extremely bright in one area, and have difficulty socially adjusting to others. However, most adults with A are able to accommodate their role in society and many are very productive. Gates is one example, but there are others who write, teach, and work in labs. So work with your partner on their area of expertise and work with helping them to understand social situations. They have trouble grasping, for example, that they might hurt someones feelings by saying things or doing things. It's as though their "socializing" gene was left out of the mixture when they were born. They need assistance to socialize. They are trainable and this doesn't seem to be something that medication helps. Good luck.
2007-01-31 23:40:55 · answer #2 · answered by judgebill 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't take it personally. I have struggled for years with living with one. He is a good care giver, very intelligent but has a great difficulty sharing feeling and emotions. I have to "draw him in" when I feel lonely. Which is most of the time. Also he is very anti-social. I have a great group of friends I do things with, it is my life preserver.
God Bless and Good Luck
2007-02-01 00:31:29 · answer #3 · answered by Soulfulgrl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Given the lack or awareness and negative crap that goes with Aspergers Syndrome...I cant imagine ANYONE having a good romantic relationship with one....as they are not capable of returning the feelings. Its hard carrying on a deep and meaningful with yourself for very long...read the traits listed;
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Asberger%27s_Syndrome
2007-02-01 00:10:55 · answer #4 · answered by Scully 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
people with that syndrome do not adapt to change at all very well, dude, how bad is it, i have Asperger syndrome (very mild form of autism and people think i'm normal. but yeah,
2007-01-31 23:42:43 · answer #5 · answered by krynmusic 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Here is the link to a site that looks like it could help. Its a support group.
2007-01-31 23:42:56 · answer #6 · answered by Angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
http://www.aspergerinfo.com/forums/ubbthreads.php/ubbthreads.php/ubb/cfrm
Why don't you visit the forums, join, and ask others who have more experience. They are a very nice group. I know!
2007-02-01 00:31:56 · answer #7 · answered by Eleazar's Daughter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋