i hate it cuz i know its not fair to both of them. they both like me, and i cant help but like both of them back! one is easy to open up to and just have fun with, someone that will listen and i can be myself around. and the other guy flatters me, makes me laugh, is always there for me, and believes in me...i dont know what to do...
2007-01-31 15:20:16 · 12 answers · asked by sharstar 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
threesome?
2007-01-31 15:23:12 · answer #1 · answered by joe h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to take a step back and think about things before continuing to pursue the both of them... This is not fair to them at all... Who is the best for you??? Just be friends with them for now and nothing more and over time you will know which one you would rather be with. Dont play them is all I am saying.
2007-01-31 23:29:43 · answer #2 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoever said you had to choose? Date both of them. But don't lead anybody to think they're the only one. Why is everyone always in such a big rush to be in a serious relationship anyway? Take your time and get to know both of them. Then you can make a rational decision.
2007-01-31 23:26:43 · answer #3 · answered by Miss Pleo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I just got out of that problem I dated one guy and then one more asked me to be his girlfriend so i said yes there and then i started dating 3 other boys so yeah.. what i did was tell them all about each other after bout a week b/c it wore me out and after i told them i let them decide wether they wanted to stay or go!so i would say tell them whats going on and ask them to give you a little while to sort things out!
2007-01-31 23:26:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Eventually you have to pick one over the other or lose the risk of losing them both.
2007-01-31 23:29:43 · answer #5 · answered by Monkey Lips 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let them both no that you want to date other people until you decide which one is right for you. If there are little things that one of them does to make you cringe or anything that makes you think Can I really deal with this in a long term relationship? then that person is not for you. Just date both until you figure it out. You go girl, just live and don't be stressed and then the answer will come to you. You can also make a lis of things you like and don't like about both of them and then see who wins. Also ask your friends which one they like best. That may help a little too.
2007-01-31 23:35:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will end up losing both unless you determine which one is the one for you.
2007-01-31 23:23:40 · answer #7 · answered by smilingtalker_au 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Secretly date both of them without letting the other know..C'mon, you know you want to do that!
2007-01-31 23:24:52 · answer #8 · answered by Xfactor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to make a choice before they both get angry at you..
2007-01-31 23:22:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yah thats a tuffy, i would go with the one your comfortable around but either way its gonna be hard
2007-01-31 23:23:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're selfish and shallow. That was easy.
2007-01-31 23:31:15 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋