What can you tell me about how can a young woman deal with?...and she does pray?

Question

the fact that her husband is a wolf in sheep's clothing and cannot do anything about it b/c divorce is really not an option as she either has no grounds on why to divorce or does not believe in divorce unless something like cheating happens which has not yet? Her husband is gradually treating her like an enemy if she stands up for the truth. She is taken as an insult and put down when she tries to provide positive and helpful criticism for him - as she does this out of a caring and concerned heart. At first she did not realize it but as time goes by it is evident that her husband does not share the Christian values he made her believe that he shares...if she notices something like lying and says Hun you know that this is not true what you are saying or doing, he starts frowning and acting like someone who would say "how dare you question my ways"... "True Christian" answers highly appreciated please. If you are not serious about this please do not answer. Thank u

I am sorry, no offense, what I meant by true Christians is someone who belives in Christ. If you are not against Christians please also answer. This question is not about religion though but a Christian perspective is appreciated. This woman is in a tough boat because she works for her husband and is treated ok because of that however if she didnt, she would not have much value for him, from what I see. But she believes that there is hope however many times she doubts it and is scared. She does pray much but cannot tell anyone her pain b/c it would hurt many people who will not understand.

sometimes she thinks that she might be crazy, he does make her belive that sometimes, but then when she is alone and thinks more deeply about things, she is scared and unsure of what to do. she feels trapped. but still cares about her husband at times and sees his vulnerabilities...however she cant seem to find any solutions. and please whoever says divorce him already, i appreciate you taking the time to read this, hwoever, i think this lady needs counseling but its hard for her to get it as there is hardly any time for that in her schedule and her husband would probably not let her get any counseling.

Answer 1

In a christian perspective as to what the bible says in 1st Corinthians around chapter 11, that the wife who has a non-believer (in this case is worse, be cause he has a 2-face) and she is a believer, she should remember that she was not called by the Lord to be treated as a slave (that's how he's treating her), but she was called to be free in the Lord.

Why she prays and prays and she don't see any changes? She is sleeping with the demon and living with him under the same roof. Where is the Authority that Jesus gave us to rebuke demons?

The bible says that these won't be chased away unless by prayer and fasting. Is she fasting? The fasting required by God in the book of Isaiah?

You know, Just now I am thinking that she still don't understand where she is standing and who she is fighting. It seems as if she don't know who she is in the Kingsom of God! Jesus gave her Spirit of Power, Love, Authority, and in the perfect love of God there is no fear. I see here that she needs to stand with Authority and courage, and not show her hsband any fear. Criticizing and arguing with him will not change anything. She is wasting her time with that, because is not him is a demon who she argues with and not realize it. She should not allow him control and manipulate her mind his ways. Put a STOP!

Now, knowing that she is fighting against principalities in high places (Ephesians 6) and not with flesh and blood, she has to stand sronger in her faith and no fear of the devil. We don't have spirit of cowardness, but Spirit of Power over all MENTAL oppressions of this type too.

God bless, Liz
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Answer 2

If this lady does not want to get divorced, I would suggest that she stops the "positive criticism..It's not doing the relationship any good...
You did not mention if her husband is cheating..... because if he is, then that's grounds....If he is not,,, then why is she on him....Those kinds of accusations drive their spouses right into the bed of someone else.....

If this lady beliefs that her husband has feelings for someone else which he hasn't acted upon....her criticism will not help her... It will only give him reason to dislike her... Either way....She needs to either get divorced, or stop it with the accusations.....

Answer 3

i am not a true christian, true christians don't think things through, they just read their bible and hope that it tells them what to do

here is a scientific aproach to your problem

is your husband abusing you?
sounds like its the start of emotional or mental abuse, do you want to be in an abusive relationship? i don't know, but these are the questions you should be asking yourself

divorce is an option, and if you decide that you only want answers from true christians or true christian answers then go read your bible and pray to your god and stay in the situation you are in

thats about all i can say

Answer 4

She needs to keep praying but alse go to counseling and they also need to go to marriage counseling. She needs to read the book the Power of a Praying Wife.. This will be very helpful to her... Tell her if she needs to talk to anyone that I am here:) Go to http://www.marriagetoday.org and email Jimmy and Karen Evans and see if they can help you with this at all... I wish you the best with helping her... I will be praying for her and her marriage. As long as he is pleased to dwell with her then she should not seek to be loosed from him. She also needs to Pray and ask God for guidance in this too.

Answer 5

Wow was the once ...but some people like to hide behind God and use him when it helps them. Could write you email after email about this but to make thing short and I hope clear.... "God calls alot of people for a lot of things but God never called anyone to be a fool" !!!

Answer 6

Divorce him already, he's verbally and emotionally abusing you. If he protests, frown at him like he does at you.