2007-01-31 15:04:35 · 23 answers · asked by snow_man_nksa 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
well, I hired a house maid for two years. For your Info, in my culutre, i can have a nother wife and i do not live in the US,
2007-01-31 15:46:37 · update #1
no you should get therapy!
2007-01-31 15:07:35 · answer #1 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
why don't you find another lady to take care of the kids! your wife is busy all day running her butt of with your kids. get somene to watch the kids, take your wife out for nice meals, shopping, romantic walks, and THEN see what happens. YOU married her, you helped her get pregnant, you are part of the reason her body doesn't look the same and she's tired all day, so why do you think you can turn your back on her now?? you are part of what made her who she is today.
and if you are REALLY a sexoholic...you need therapy, not a nother woman.
2007-02-01 01:51:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do a little more for and with her and YOUR children. When people are so busy they tend to be tired, if she had a little help she might not be so tired all the time. As for her family, talk to her about setting personal time aside for the two of you. I wonder though, do you really care for her? Because if you did you wouldn't be asking about finding another lady, you would be asking for advice on how to make things better.
2007-01-31 23:11:53 · answer #3 · answered by mom of 2 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're an ungrateful peice of turd. You should stop being a hypocrite and tell your wife what your sexual intentions are. Then she can file for divorce and sue you to the ground till you're groveling on dirt trying to pay for child support and alimony. Or maybe she should hire a hooker to sleep with you, sedate you and chop your penis off and demand to have you penis delivered in a glass jar.
2007-01-31 23:48:42 · answer #4 · answered by cinderella overdrive 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope..!!! Getting another lady means CHEATING!!! Talk to your wife about it.. Let her know about your sexual desires and you need to be pleasure very much often.. Ask her about her opinion on the matter... Discuss all the alternatives that you can think of.. When both of you have finally come to a conclusion... DO IT.!!!
Never CHEAT on your wife if you love her...
2007-01-31 23:10:29 · answer #5 · answered by -K3llY- 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are that close to her relatives, have them babysit for a weekend and treat your wife to a local resort. You come home from work and relax while her day continues till your kids are in bed and your clothes are clean.
SHE IS A WORKHOLLIC:(
2007-01-31 23:11:12 · answer #6 · answered by Nort 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no offence, but that's a really selfish thing to say. you want to find someone else just cause your wife is taking care of your kids? why didn't you think twice before not using protection? but anyways you should just talk to her about it...I'm sure you'll work something out.
2007-01-31 23:13:29 · answer #7 · answered by LaLaLaa♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No don't find another lady, you are married.
Was your wife ever a sexoholic? If she never was and you still married her, then now you have to live with it.
2007-01-31 23:10:24 · answer #8 · answered by Venom 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sex isn't everything in a relationship. You are married, talk to her. Tell her how you are feeling. Maybe you can compromise. I am sure she has alot to deal within every day life sometimes people are just too tired.
2007-01-31 23:07:59 · answer #9 · answered by chemky1 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
What you need to find is a sense of decency and help your wife with YOUR children.
Then maybe she'll feel loving towards you and your sex life will improve.
2007-01-31 23:10:00 · answer #10 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Nope, obviously at one stage your sex life was great. Otherwise you wouldnt have children!
You just gotta learn how to push her buttons so she cant resist you...thats what my B/f dose...even when Im not in the mood 5 mins with him and I am.......
2007-01-31 23:10:30 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋