ive had one serious gay relationship back in college. im 26 now and still single. there's nothing wrong being single, but im longing for the thought of being loved, remembered and taken care of. why is it so hard for gays to find true love? i dont know what to do.. will i search? or should i just wait?
2007-01-31 14:46:29 · 27 answers · asked by mickey f 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Straight people have this problem too. Don't worry about it you'll find the one for you, almost all of us have.
2007-01-31 14:48:38 · answer #1 · answered by Celeste P 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
The best answer I have is the most cliche- You'll find it when you're not looking. I'm 30 and still single, so you're not alone at all. There is a great book titled "Finding the Boyfried Within". I read it a few years back when I was in a similiar spot with wanting to go out on dates and have all the things a relationship brings. After reading it, I felt better about being single and accepted that when the time is right, it'll happen.
2007-02-01 00:21:18 · answer #2 · answered by bhanaemori76 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you go to a gay bar. I'm not gay myself but I have some friends that are. They are never happy in their relationships. It's not like it the majority of the population either. Finding a gay LOVER is not that easy. GOOD LUCK
2007-01-31 22:49:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Hang in there, it is tough for all people, not just gays.
I recommend instead of a gay bar, try hanging out with friends more, or join a club to meet new people, maybe a drama group or art class. You will find the one out there meant for you, just have faith.
2007-01-31 23:14:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just wait. They say love will find you most of the time when you least expect it. I know Im still waiting for my next knight in shining armor. Just have to be patient. I wish you well in finding love too.
2007-01-31 23:14:13 · answer #5 · answered by artistguy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We all feel like that, strait or gay. Everyone needs love.
I honestly believe that no person is going to satisfy that craving for love and acceptance that everyone has. It doesn't exist on this planet. People will always let you down - even if they love you, their interests can change - or they can die.
I think you are craving for something more spiritual. There's more to your existance than the time you spend here on earth.
2007-01-31 22:51:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's harder because gay guys are more intimidate in having relationships, and most try not to show that their gay while others are normal and are straight...so you're just have to keep searching...you're young anyways, right?^^
2007-01-31 22:50:09 · answer #7 · answered by Hideaki Takizawa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep on searching. I'm just a few years older than you and still searching for that special guy
2007-01-31 23:13:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go with your life's flow and maybe someone worthy might turn up in the near future, but you have to be a complete person as well in order to sustain a true long-lasting relationship.
2007-02-01 01:28:54 · answer #9 · answered by xander 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you're trying too hard. You always meet the special person in different circumstances when least expected. Do something you are interested in and when you least expect it, who knows?
As an aside, consider becoming bisexual. Not only will you double your chances, you might like the softer side.
2007-01-31 22:49:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Join the club! Look lightly, and wait. You are going to have to take a risk (like I'm gonna have to do and scared to do) and ask someone out!
2007-01-31 22:51:17 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋