like really it is hard to imagine but would writing like a girl, wearing really tight cloths and really colorful cloths, and talking like a girl mean you are actually gay or just Metrosexual? This is my personality, and I think that it is really cool. Is there anything wrong with me?
2007-01-31 14:38:55 · 11 answers · asked by M2 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
There is nothing wrong with you, people often have a whole range of gender expression and it may or may not be the same as what the steriotypes hold for your sex. There are men who are 'girly' and those men are not neccessarily gay.
A Metrosexual is a straight man who is stylish, dressed, not like a girl, but like a stylish man.
You describe yourself as writing and dressing and talking like a girl...that means you are 'gender queer', the old word was transgender. This does not mean you need to go out and get a sex change or anything. I don't know if you are in school or what your age is, but, a therepist could help you talk about this and sort through your feelings.
2007-02-02 10:20:30 · answer #1 · answered by Terri 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I would have to say that you are kind of queer, meaning unusual, but not necessarily gay. Are you a man who is sexually aroused by other men? That is how I would define a gay man. As for being Metrosexual, think about the kind of guy that you would see in GQ. Usually the term is used for straight guys who are fastidious in their appearance and are comfortable enough in their sexuality to do things like getting their eyebrows waxed and getting a manicure.
2007-02-04 03:44:06 · answer #2 · answered by hernandoguy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you remeber when the English men dressed more elaboate than women? They called it being a "Gentleman". In modern day we call it "metrosexual" or. . .the origanl word. . .
Androgyne is a term derived from the Greek words andras (άνδρας) (meaning man) and gyne (γυνή) (meaning woman) [1] that can refer to two concepts regarding the mixing of both male and female genders or having a lack of gender identification.
This sounds more like what you are expressing, (IMHO).
If those are the clothes that you like, then those are the clothes you like. Your clothes do not have to define you.
You are gay if, you are attracted to and have sexual relations with, men!
I enclosed the website to help explain. it also lists famous people who have such traits. personally I think its HOT!
2007-02-08 08:28:20 · answer #3 · answered by skillsgurl69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why label yourself ? It's not really helpful to consider yourself gay or straight anyway, since nobody's way of being is 100% one or the other.
Nothing you have said means that you are gay, nothing you have said means you are straight. Stop worrying about what you appear to be and just live as you want to, as long as it's not anti-social.
Do be careful about wearing tight clothes in the crotch area too much though; I have heard that it can cause fertility problems.
2007-02-07 02:43:29 · answer #4 · answered by Dharma Nature 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you are writing like a girl when you thank that guy for the wonderful sex you had, then that's gay.. otherwise, it's just writing like a girl. Gay = sex with folks of the same gender... I am a man who writes almost illegibly... Does this mean I'm straight? My boyfriend of 8 years would be surprised to hear it...
2007-02-06 00:09:16 · answer #5 · answered by tomi27410 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's not meterosexual or gay. It's effeminate, I guess. And no, it's just who you are. Some women will really like that. As would some men. Me, I like my men manly.
2007-02-06 10:32:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If there is some thing wrong with you than there is some thing wrong with every one who excits. Including me. So I guess the answer is no there is nothing wrong with you.
2007-02-08 12:00:39 · answer #7 · answered by bi_anna58 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gay adult adult males can understand while a woman is warm yet wont get grew to become on for the reason that they like adult adult males (kinda like gazing a flower yet you dont wanna **** a flower) Bi adult adult males gets grew to become on for the reason that they like the two sexes...
2016-10-16 09:38:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think anything is wrong with that i think it is your personality and your friends should like you for who you are
2007-02-04 09:34:30 · answer #9 · answered by jennhahn02 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are gay if you gave to ask.
2007-02-04 05:28:24 · answer #10 · answered by Matt(e)R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋