me and a friend of mine been fighting for over 3 months, even tho we both wanna be together, lately i had an emotional-brekadown infront of him and he's like this must end. the day after, i called and apologized about the drama iv been causing and i told him it's not fair that he judge me for the way i was that time, cause we know each other for around 4 years! he was like ok no problem..
now, we'r back.. kinda better.. i mean i lost a lot of the feelings i had for him, and he got pretty much cocky on me! i asked him wheather he got back bcz he wants to or bcz I wanted to, he said bcz i aplogized and he wants us 2 b friends, long story short...
Now, i think that he think that iv DYING over him and i cant live w\o when the truth is i just dont wanna lose a friend nor the good relationship we had back then bcz of hard phase i went through..
i feel so bad about myself that he thinks that, that im weak and that he's better than me.. wat should i do?
2007-01-31 14:30:48 · 3 answers · asked by anne_anne 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
grow up!!!
2007-01-31 14:40:47 · answer #1 · answered by steve s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anne, open your heart to yourself. Learn to love yourself, to honor and respect yourself as you are, without judgment. You are perfect just the way you are. Honor yourself. Remember, you are the best friend you'll ever have. So treat yourself with respect. Now, if you can learn to love, honor and respect yourself, you won't have to worry about what another person thinks about you because you already know you're great. If another doesn't recognize how great you are, then they are obviously hard of hearing, hard of seeing and only semi-conscious. Maybe you don't want to have anything to do with them. Honor yourself by the friends you choose. If your chosen friends don't honor you, dump them. What somebody else thinks about you is supremely unimportant to you...because you know how wonderful you are. That's all the validation you need.
2007-01-31 23:28:16 · answer #2 · answered by judgebill 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok....if i understand you correctly, you are worried about him perceiving you as weak or needy, when in reality you don't even want to be with him that bad.
well, i would suggest you find another male friend and show him that you can live your life without his help...
2007-01-31 22:41:08 · answer #3 · answered by Tryumph 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋