i need help i dono if im pregnant but i cant go to the doctors or buy a pregnancy test because i knoe my mom will find out... im scared
2007-01-31 14:20:19 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
yeah if you had sex and your very late. You need to go to the doctor though, you sound young, and a lot could go wrong with a young preg, like tube babies which can destroy any future chances of ever getting pregnant.I know you are scared, but you need to get someone to take you to the doctor or a health clinic, do you have grandparents? a friends mom?eventually you are going to have to tell your mother, yes she prob will yell, cry, and be disappointed but you are her daughter and she loves you ( i guess i don't know y'all at all) and remember if you are pregnant and are too young to keep it there is always adoption, you will have a chance to give a couple, or a single person a chance to be a parent. If you do want to keep it, then good for you and good luck to you... I hope you are not preg.. but if you are things will get better,
BTW you could also just have plumbing problems now that I completely scared you, if you are not preg,,go see a gyno, they can put you on BIRTH CONTROL to help regulate you..and to help you not get preg.
2007-01-31 14:34:14 · answer #1 · answered by jagnic233 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound very young and I know you're scared, I don't know what type of relationship you have with your mother, but if you can't talk to her for now at least confide your fears to another trusted adult or relative ormaybe your father if he is in the picture or grandparent maybe even a teacher or counselor you feel you can trust. Don't do anything to try and abort because you can seriously injure yourself and you aren't even sure you're pregnant!! If you attend school do you trust your school nurse? Also you must live in an extremely small town that you're afraid to buy a pregnancy test, but it depends on what type you get, because some are more complicated than others and you may read it wrong. I hope you get up enough courage to trust someone so if you are pregant you can get the support,advice and prenatal exams you need if you plan to keep your baby or the medical treatment you need if you do not!!
2007-01-31 14:40:01 · answer #2 · answered by peachiepie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have missed a period then you definitely need to find out right away what is going on. A pregnancy test is the easiest way. If you can find a way to have sex without your mom knowing surely you can find a way to the 24hr store and buy a test, but if not then perhaps a TRUSTED and discreet friend could even go to another town and buy one for you? There are wivestales about methods you could try without using a pregnancy test but those won't be accurate so you really need to buy one somehow. Maybe you could act like you have to go the bathroom while your with a friend and have them pull into a store that sells them and either buy it then take it in the store restroom or buy it and put it in a pocket so no one will see and take it immediately so you don't have to worry about hiing it.
2007-01-31 14:27:41 · answer #3 · answered by Amanda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why will your mother find out if you buy a pregnancy test?
Buy one test yourself and throw all the packaging into a school garbage bin.
If the test is negative, buy another in a week and check.
If that is negative you are probably OK
If you are Pregnant, Tell your mom as soon as you can so you both can examine the options.
2007-01-31 14:26:54 · answer #4 · answered by bob shark 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your mom. You need her now. Time is short and you need to confirm if you are pregnant or not so you can make the rest of your plan, together. I hope you can talk to her. If she gets angry you can tell her that you know she is upset. Ask her to be angry with you later but you need her to help you right now.
When this is resolved, one way or the other, I hope you remember how scared and upset you are now. There is no boy that is worth going through this stress.
2007-01-31 19:38:22 · answer #5 · answered by Tamm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I’m going to say all this because i care, and not because i am a b*tch. No there is not any other way you can truly tell if you are pregnant. I kind of glad your mom would be mad because that shows that she cares about you, and if you are pregnant its not about you or your feelings anymore its about this baby. Why in the world would you put yourself into this situation. It sounds like you are young. You have your entire life ahead of you to have kids.... this boy is not worth it or just having sex in general is not worth it. you know they do have protection.. do not be selfish and bring a kid into this world when you are not ready too... come on now girl.. please learn from this situation!
2007-01-31 14:29:50 · answer #6 · answered by Emmie S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait 9 months.
2007-02-01 10:52:02 · answer #7 · answered by Andrew W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Planned parenthood can help you out. If you are pregnant, they will help you and your baby get the care you need, and they won't tell anyone without your direct permission.
2007-01-31 14:25:52 · answer #8 · answered by baby_savvy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should know in about 9 months, probably less.
2007-01-31 14:24:23 · answer #9 · answered by zil28ennov 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
there is no other way. i guess you could wait for about 5 months and if your belly is huge you'll know.
2007-01-31 14:24:48 · answer #10 · answered by redpeach_mi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋