Pregnant? Help!?

Question

It's been about 5 -6 days now, and I'm becoming concerned with my body and what it's doing.
I've never had intercourse, but my boyfriend and I got a little close a few weeks ago. We both had clothing on, so I don't see how I could be pregnant, but I think the guilt's overcoming me and I'm all worried now.
My PROBLEM is that I'm in the middle of my cycle, around hte time I ovulate, but I feel different (or at least I think I do) than the other times I've ovulated. I've had hard ovulations before, but I'm not sure what this is.
I am having abdomen flutters, which were pretty bad a few days ago, I had a little back pain and tiredness. I also felt a little nauseous, but I've never thrown up.
Could this just be my ovulation overloading? Could I be making myself have pregnancy symptoms? My period isn't for a few ore weeks, so I really have no idea what I should do!
Even if I'm not pregnant, I'm concerned with how my body is acting right now. Any advice that you could give me would be great!

Answer 1

Your symptoms sound like stress to me. It is highly unlikely that you could become pregnant from the scenario you described. Even if you did, you would not be experiencing symptoms of pregnancy yet.

It sounds to me like you went farther than you were comfortable with your bf, and your subconcious is trying to make you realize that. Tell him you need a little bit of space, relax, and figure out where YOU want to draw the boundaries. Tell him where those boundaries are, and don't let him push. If he does, he doesn't really care about you.

Good luck.

Answer 2

okay... take a deep breath.... a few of them.. inhale.. exhale...
if I read this right? you have NOT had sex... and kept yours (and his) clothes on? right?
if that is a yes? then this one will make you feel much better! you most likely having the added pain due to stress...... make you feel a little better so you are not so stressed... so will some of the following, hopefully...?
first.... although it has been documented that you "could" possibly get pregnant if boy and girl were both unclothed and he was well pretty close to having sex with you? (pyhsically) those are like one in over a billion... which is why they have been beyond difficult to prove.... but theoretically it could happen some scientist proved that.. (who was I guess really did not like the other things he could have chosen to prove or disprove?!) anyway...
if you were only five days along? there would not be any ability to feel the little baby/zygote.... I think is what it would still be called... it would be a little smaller than a grain of rice? or maybe even still about the size of a single grain of sand.... the flutters you feel? might be guilt combined with the excitement that we all feel when we think we might be pregnant...
and to your question of whether or not you could be making yourself have pregnancy symptoms? yes very much so!
period is due how far from now? sorry (and happily) you are not pregnant... do not know how old you are... but what you should do? is stay as innocent and sweet as you are... and do not let that boy near you alone like that again! :)
also? if the pain does not go away, or gets worse? make an appointment with a dr. another answer said it could be a cyst? she is right.. I get those.. they can be annoying... but they are usually off to one side of pelvic area? still... better safe than sorry....
good luck and god bless!

Answer 3

For starters I am using my husbands account just cause I don't want to go through the hassel of setting my own up.
Just a little background on where I am coming from... When my husband and I were dating we were convinced that we were not having intercourse because he never penetrated me. Like you said we got close but didn't think we ever actually passed the "line". Then one day we both got shooken up because we felt a little more. Like you I started feeling really weird I thought maybe we had done it wrong , I don't mean so much morally wrong as that we had missed a step or something. So I went to the Doctor and she told me that the hormones in my blood were showing that I was two weeks pregnant but since it was so early I would have to wait two more weeks and do a home pregnancy test to see if I really was pregnant ( alot can happen early on and would cause the embryo to not continue, it is so small and complicated). The long of the short of it was nine months later our gorgeous baby was born.
I am not saying you are pregnant. I do want to point out though that alot of times we deceive ourselves and say that we are doing less than what is really going on. Just because you still have your shirt on and your pants aren't below your knees doesn't mean that your genitals aren't exposed and that you can't be penetrated. And even if the man retracts before he reachse orgasm doesn't gaurantee you get pregnant. the body's natural lubricant also carries sperm. Not to mention that sometimes a little will slip before he retracts.
My suggestion to you would be to wait and see if your period comes, if it is a week late take a pregnancy test. They are most accurate then and especially if you take it first thing in the morning. I also suggest that you take this scare seriously and reevaulate your physical relationship with your partner. you dont' sound like you are ready for a child and abortion is never an easy choice, it has its consequences as well. Be honest with yourselves about how physical you are and seek out some accountability. you can do it you just have to fight for whats best.

Answer 4

Sweety it sounds as though you are very young and very inexperienced, my sugestion is the more and more you spend alone time with your boyfriend it will happen eventually (have Sex) and becuase our hormones go crazy when that happens your brain just tells you to keep going and before you know it you are having sex.
I would talk to your mum or a trusted female family member if you have that kind of relationship with them to understand more about how to become pregnant and about sex. I think you will be suprised how little you know.
First thing unless you both had your clothes of you cannot be pregnant. I would sy the butterflies in you tummy are a result of guilt and nervousness. It is way to early to feel a pregnancy
anyway and generally this only happens around 3-5 week mark of a pregnancy. By then you will have your period and you be feeling fine again.
Hormones are a weird and wonderful thing. It is normal around the age i am thinking you are to feel tired and the lower back ache can just be a result of hormonal behaviour.

Dont sweet it this time babe but i would'nt spend any alone time with your boyfriend as it seems that you both cannot trust yourselves and you would be safer catching up in a group. I council teens on teen pregnancy and i tell you it will change your life. (it wont ruin it), but it will definately change it.
The risk are not worth the stress it can cause

Don't worry you will be fine but speak to someone about sex the more knowlege you have the more equipt you will be.
If you are a virgin then this is the most precious gift you can give away to someone you can never get it back sooooooooo please make a right decision and hold onto it (until your married would be ideal), make sure it worth the person you may lose it to.

Take Care Mumma Pinktoni

Answer 5

I think that you are just getting yourself all worked up. If you haven't even missed your period I wouldn't worry. If you were pregnant you would not be having these symptoms so early. Just take a deep breath and relax. My husband and I tried to get pregnant for almost a year. Every month I would think that I had all of the symptoms that you are describing. I got all worked up for nothing. When I finally did get pregnant it was nothing like I thought it would be and I didn't even have symptoms (other than a missed period)

Answer 6

I think you are freaking yourself out over nothing. If you didn't have sex..then you aren't pregnant. Your nerves are probably what is making your stomach upset..and you need to relax because stress can delay your period and then you are really going to freak out. Sperm CANNOT float through clothing...So just calm down and SLOW DOWN, dont do anything before you are ready too. And obviously if this is putting you in that much panic then you really aren't ready for anything else. So just calm down and you will be fine. Although if this continues for more than a few more days, you might talk to your doctor you may just have a stomach bug. Good Luck.

Answer 7

Like everyone else said I doubt you are pregnant. However, if you were having unusual cramps around ovulation time you could have an ovarian cyst. The best thing to do is relax, and stay calm. If you have more than unusual pain when your period starts you should see your doctor. But if the pain becomes worse before then seek help sooner.

Answer 8

i'm no doctor, but i've read and heard from reliable sources that pyschological problems could often at times cause stress levels to rise triggering serious physical problems, even screwing up your period. So if your sure you've never had sex, that might be the problem, In my opinion you just need to relax alittle and unwind this weekend. Or try talking to a doctor for more info.

Answer 9

If you didn't have intercourse, it's highly unlikely you're pregnant, even with heavy petting.

I strongly suggest you contact your doctor and get professional care and advice. Your health is too important to risk it on pat answers from strangers here on-line. Don't wait - call the doctor now...

Answer 10

Because your so worried about being pregnant you are causing your self to have false pregnancy symptoms.The way your body is acting sounds to me like pms and thats all.I hope this helps if you are still this concerned in a day or two i would call your doctor