a friend of my brothers was just here and while my brothers were outside, me and the friend were in the living room. well he was in the process of leaving and wanted to shake my hand so i did and all of a sudden he flips me around and pushes me over a chair while pulling my shirt up. i had the phone in my other hand and i was telling him to get the f**k off me when it rang thank GOD. so i answered it in a hurry because i was getting scared. so he jumps back and walks into the other room for a minute, comes back and asks me if i want to go with him. i'm freaked out right now. he's gone, but my question is should i tell my brothers about this? thats going to sound stupid to other people. he was drunk so i dont know if thats why he did it, maybe he was playing around, i dont know. i would appreciate some serious answers please.
2007-01-31 13:58:51 · 6 answers · asked by atreyu17244 2 in Health ➔ Women's Health
the thing is i AM an adult..in my early 20's, i just didnt want to blow anything out of proportion ya know?
2007-01-31 14:08:26 · update #1
I wouldn't ever allow any guy to pull up my shirt that I'm not comfortable with, I may not be able to prevent it because he may be stronger than me, but I wouldn't allow him to excactly get away with it.
He really violated you if you weren't comfortable with it, drunk or not if he respected you he wouldn't do that. Great that he may think your attractive but not great that he acted like an immature jerk torwards you.
Depending on your brothers attitude and how takes things about you and takes things in general, I'd approach him and maybe give him the situation and ask him how he thinks you should handle it or if you really think that his attitude would be appropriate if he found out it was you that it happened to, yes tell him.
Many women think they are independent and can handle any situation by themselves but sometimes it's best to have someone have your back through something like this.
Good luck and I hope nobody ever disrespects you like this again, drunk or not drunk.
2007-01-31 14:09:53 · answer #1 · answered by aliciamarie88 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
tell an adult, your brothers may just think you're exxgerating, when it's really a big deal. I'm sure he wouldnt of been violent if he weren't under the influence but still, tell an adulltttt.
2007-01-31 22:06:37 · answer #2 · answered by anastasia l 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Attempted sexual assault. Being "drunk" is no excuse. Yes, tell your brothers, and make sure that as*hole never comes over again.
2007-01-31 22:35:18 · answer #3 · answered by Lilith 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you felt threatened then you WERE!! YOu should at least mention it to your brothers and hope they understand and support you. Drunk does not justify this behavior!
2007-01-31 22:11:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
yes i think you should tell because whether he was drunk or not he might take it further next time and actually rape you if he notices that he got away with doing this hell think he can take it further next timne and blame it on being drunk
2007-01-31 22:06:42 · answer #5 · answered by partygirl 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
god it's called flirting. don't you know anything? what are you, 12?
2007-01-31 22:08:42 · answer #6 · answered by sarah e 1 · 0⤊ 4⤋