Is he playing games or what? Scorpio guy and Sagittarius girl?

Question

I just started dating a Scorpio and I'm a Sagittarius. My intuition is telling me to stick it out and give him a chance. But he is very secretive, quiet, and he does'nt pay me as much attention as i would like. He does'nt call often, and we barley see each other, but everytime i try to break it off with him, he calls me repeatedly, until i answer, and then he tells me that he likes me, and that i'm his baby. Is he playing games with me or what

Answer 1

I have a Scorpio man and I'm a Sagittarius too. Although the general traits of this sign may be the same for all of them, but other factors also contribute to his overall personality and your combination. Did he come on strong and steadily in his pursuit of you? Did those eyes mesmerize you deeply? That's his way of luring you in and letting you know that he's interested. Mine played head games for a while and it was a wild roller-coaster........but for some reason I understood what was going on. You have to be a strong individual. He's testing you to see if you truly like him and if you're worth his time and love. Scorpios have a fear of getting hurt and won't trust just anyone. This is why they don't express their feelings easily and their emotions are often repressed. It's not that they aren't capable of feeling or caring. They do.....intensely underneath that rough exterior. If you earn their trust, they will open up to you slowly, but surely. Don't push him. They can get suspicious of your motives and retreat. They are very smart and can see through any dishonesty. Once he falls for you, you will definitely know it!!! He's as sweet as sugar, calls often, wants to be with you and do things for you. It's actually an amazing experience when he gets to that point. The passion and physical part of the relationship is where he seems to reveal his feelings for you. It's focused, intense and incredible!!!! He may not be the kind of guy who is affectionate, touchy-feely and lovey-dovey, but he makes up for it in other ways. Sometimes you may think he's contradicting himself, but there are hidden messages because he's unable to express himself in words. It can be very difficult for him. If you think he's worth it (trust your instincts), give him a chance and some time. They don't love quickly. They need to be certain of you first.........once they make you theirs, they won't be able to let go. Their mood changes, temper, jealousy, possessiveness are all natural traits that differ from one individual to another........They can be dead quiet, enjoy their time alone and self-centered. If you have the patience, understanding, tolerance (which us Sagittarians can be), a life of your own, real feelings for him, then you will weather any storm. Don't try to make him jealous. Be secure enough with yourself. Don't take certain things too personally. He can joke cruelly or be brutally honest, but it's not to harm you, unless you screwed him over, hurt him deeply or upset him in some terrible way. He appreciates a woman who is truthful with him. If he sulks, allow it. He'll come back around when he's ready. Understanding and accepting him exactly for who he is are keys to his heart! He needs lots of love, attention and respect. He's very strong and is protective. If you have what it takes, they are so worth it...............Good luck! You two can teach each other many things in life. You may have more in common than you think............which most are unable to see. It's not easy...........but if you can manage, it's great!

Answer 2

As I have noticed, Sagittarius people are inevitably attract to Scorpios somehow. If you were to go to a Myspace page of a Sagittarius dude, there's a chance that he's most likely to have a Scorpio person in his/her Top *. But I might be wrong on that.

But the fact of the matter is, Sagittarius people may find Scorpio people likable, but they are not for relationships. Sowwy. Try going with an Aries or a Leo.

Answer 3

I dont know but one of my good friends is a Scorpio and my BEST friend is a Sagitarrius.. I dont think you guys would make a good match becuse a Sagittarius tends to like excitement and want more in a relationship. Scorpios cant usually offer that. They are mysterious and keep to themselves..

Answer 4

Well it depends.... You see most scorpio's are very secretive and they don't like to put their business out there. They are not as open as sagg. Most scorpio's I know are very sweet, but in their eyes you have to earn their trust. Trust is everything to them and with most water signs if we can't trust you what sense does it make to be around you? So you have to be patient with your scorpio guy and listen to him when he talks about himself he will open up to you in time. However, let me warn you once you break a scorpio's trust there is hell to pay. Scorpio's are one sign I do not want to piss off.

Answer 5

Scorpios are obsessive and likes to cheat and get physical and Scorpios match with a cancer or Pisces

Answer 6

sounds like he wants to keep you on a shelf and take you down when HE wants at his convience. Sounds like a selfish control freak. The scorpio's I know are passive-aggressive you are better getting away now. If he only wants you when he feels like being bothered it will only get worse in all areas of your relationship as he will only be looking for his self gratification.

Answer 7

After being with a scorpio for 4 years who in the end just says lets just be friends....I honestly dont know.... But maybe when they think about you all of the time, and wanna get to know you and stuff...especially when theyr drunk

Answer 8

No that is a typical Scorpio trait, this secret quietness. He is watching to see if you are honest and he should commit. Don't give him a chance to question your actions, he will simply walk away.

Answer 9

You should have red flags waving here girl. He has all the signs of a control freak and a jerk! Run and find yourself a respectful man.

Answer 10

of course not we scorpios are nice and non-game players holla.