I think I egged him on.?

Question

My fiancee and I decided not to have sex until marriage a very long time ago. Last week I asked my fiancee to have sex with me, he didn't want to then, but does now. Since I posed the question I've changed my mind and now I don't want to. I feel bad because he wouldn't have even thought about it unless I hadn't brought it up. But I really want to wait until marriage. what should I do?

I told him how I felt. And now he doesn't want to talk to me. :-D lovely

Answer 1

well, I think it's time for a good explination for him, yeah you probably did egg him on, but he should be reminded, as well as yourself, that you chose to do something, or not n this case. It's a good idea to wait after you've gone this far.

Communication is the key to everything in a relationship.

Answer 2

Just tell him you got caught up in the moment but you still want to wait until you two get married. You have lots of times after your married to have sex. Tell him watch out because when you marry him you will be all over him.

Answer 3

The decision to wait until marriage probably wasn't made lightly - stick to it, you've made it this far. Tell him honestly that you're confused, but want to stick to your decision. If he loves you, he'll respect that. But no more teasing him by changing your mind every few days!!!

Answer 4

Chalk it up to a moment of weakness and ask his forgiveness for tempting him. If this is your commitment, tell him you need his support to keep it, that it means a lot to you to keep it.

He may be a little frustrated (in fact, probably will be), but he got engaged to you with this in place, so he should be able to readjust and go back to keeping it.