I'm a single-mom and I'm in desperate need to come up with money to settle my kid's tuition fee in school which is due on the 15th. The final exams will be on the 1st week of March and without the payment, my daughter won't be able to take the exams. I have no other options since I can only renew my loan by March/April. I am actually in a serious relationship now for 2 years but then I fear that he might think differently of me. He's my only resort and he has the capability to provide it. I want to tell him my problem and ask help but my pride is getting in the way. Is it ok to ask for financial help from him? Would it be ok if I say firmly that this is a loan which I'm keen on paying as soon as I can. I don't want to appear as a liability to him!! Please advise me. Thanks!
2007-01-31 13:03:42 · 1 answers · asked by Mitchiko 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Thanks! I guess I just need some affirmation from someone that I need to trust my bf as my partner in life and that he will understand and help to the best he can. He has accepted me as a whole and extending that to my daughter...the good times and the bad. :)
By the way, already told him of the situation.....he just said: "I'm here".
2007-01-31 16:18:48 · update #1
ok, well if you are i a serious relationship and have been for 2yrs, I see no problem asking him for a loan.... And that is all it is, just a loan you will pay him back, tell him you will... if you have been with this guy for 2yrs and he see's you as a liability, there is something wrong there... Just talk to him and see what you come up with... Good luck!
2007-01-31 15:49:19 · answer #1 · answered by buttafly_biattch 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋