Easy--enjoy yourself. Love who you are. Don't expect perfection from yourself or thoes around you.
Understand that sometimes life is going to be hard, but you're going to have to look at the little things that matter.
--Be honest with yourself and others. If you have something to say, say it. Don't forget to say "thank you."
--Don't expect love to be a cure-all. It's not.
"Only yourself can heal you,
Only yourself can lead you,
The road is heavy going
And ends where no man knows;
Take love when love is given,
But never think to find it
A sure escape from sorrow
Or a complete repose."
--Don't make others validate or approve of you. You can't change who you are anyway.
--Don't regret your past. Learn from it.
--Smile. Look up when you walk, don't look down.
2007-01-31 12:55:15
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answered by FaZizzle 7
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TY on the positive thinking there and God Bless you also. You know what's sad is that that's assuming that you understand my past words. That you have faith and do believe in God. My day is still young. I wished that I know it already. The good thing is this rain were getting now. Trust me, we need it, but the humidity. It's like FA. It's a humid heat that makes us miserable. Life is beautiful and a gift of God. I'm RC, and a revert, so my take on some things are just understood. Still, free will and the price of having such. What's messed up is this. The Bald Eagles youth; eggs are protected, but "we" have the same rights to legally terminate the life of a child... On me know. I'm prior USAF. Even my own branch doesn't want me back and I can understand that! I'm medically retired. My health care shouldn't be a issue, but it is... Why? I'll have you dwell on that! Edit: I'll likely try to explain my observations of how "the man" government works. Lets just say that it says one thing, but really what happens!
2016-03-15 03:09:12
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answered by Anonymous
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first, i'm sorry for your loss. i hate when that happens, seems to wreck my whole day, sometimes for quite a while. but it gets better. esp.if you really love a person who dies before you, it never goes away, but it does get better. hang in there.
personally, that idea (how to live life to the fullest) is a quest of mine, from early on. i decided to do whatever i felt like i really wanted to do, with no regrets. but as i've gotten older, and look back, i have a few regrets. all those decisions i made seemed like the thing to do at the time. when i made those decisions, i thought i was living life to the fullest, doing things that most other people didn't. it is a miracle i lived through all i have and not gotten killed myself. it helps to stay out of trouble, don' t do things that will get you in trouble with the law,and don't do anything to hurt yourself. those will hang you up somehow,somewhere down the line.
figure out the things that you really love, and want to do in your life. hard to know all that when you are young. but figure out what makes you happy in life,and include the things that you think will make you happy down the road. make a plan. ("you can' t go anywhere in this life without a plan" said my uncle.i discovered winging it doesn't work very well.) i have also discovered that a college education is at least in part, essential to generating a decent income down the road. if you wish to be autonomous, a key to having more choices in this world, figure what you are happiest doing, and research paths you could take to get there. find a way to get paid for doing what makes you truly happy. you already know to let those you love know you love them. surround yourself with positive and loving people, who will encourage you and not cut you down. get to know people before you put your trust in them. and when things get tough, as they usually do somewhere down the line, keep the faith and a positive attitude. optimism helps, tho realism may happen. you can have both. just know that you are here for a reason, and also that "Someone" (or "Something") will always love you and has always loved you, and you haven't been brought this far for nothing. always do the best you can do at any given time. do all the things that make you happy, keep the faith and stay positive. look ahead, and look up. and keep in mind, you will not be young forever. all of this will pass. do what you can, while you can, and stick to your plan, and things will work out in the end, one way or another. best wishes to you.
2007-02-01 18:02:48
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answered by Auntie M. 3
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Make life beautiful for the people that come in contact with you and its gonna come back 10 folds to you!
Be a happy and loving person, and you will get a lot of love and happiness in kind! :)
2007-01-31 12:57:38
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answered by Anonymous
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I felt the same way when my friend was killed in Somalia while serving with the army there. The thing is life goes on and people still make the same mistakes sad as it is it`s true.
Try to be kind to people and helpful , it is nice to be remembered that way when it`s your turn. People that are mean when they are sick or in trouble find it hard to find help because nobody cares about them at that point.Treat others as you would like to be treated.And become a Christian so you can make it to heaven when your day is up.
2007-01-31 13:00:58
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answered by Anonymous
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To live life to the fullest, I believe you have to love others, accept them for who they are, accept the things you can't change. It's not about what you "do," but how you feel about it. Be grateful for everything you have, treat others with the respect they deserve. Lots of prayer, if you pray. With all these things, I believe you will feel you have lived a great life. I am very sorry for your loss and I encourage you to keep your head up because great things will come your way!
2007-01-31 13:00:18
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answered by to the moon 2
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Spend as much time as possible with nature. I have known allot of loss and when I am in nature I find peace and comfort in it's beauty.
2007-01-31 12:56:42
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answered by crct2004 6
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If you don't have God in your life you are missing out already on living your life to the fullest. JUST give your life to God he will fill in the missing spot in your heart. Just because someone special died doesn't mean that is the end of your happiness.. beleive me if God fills that missing spot in your heart than you will be happy forever.. and even one day you will see that special person if he/she that died beleived in Jesus..Only if you beleive in him too..take the chance...it might be your last....you never know...John 3:16
2007-01-31 13:02:07
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answered by Vikusya 1
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Live life to the fullest by giving gratitude for the many gifts that have been given to you and then you receive more. Every morning and every evening give thanks for your health, your brain, your eyes, your hearing, your smile, your attitude, your parents, your siblings, your friends, and on and on. As you go through your day and you see things and people, remember to give thanks that you did not get their problems. What you give out you will get back ten fold. Have a wonderful life and appreciate that you have been given that gift.
2007-01-31 12:59:09
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answered by kimballama 3
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Give your life and soul to Jesus. He is the only artist who works with human lives. He is the only one who can make a life "beautiful."
2007-01-31 12:56:31
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answered by Anonymous
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