I was wondering how you learn to trust someone who has hurt you? Can trust ever be like it was before?
2007-01-31 12:50:40 · 5 answers · asked by sammbertt 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
it depends the situation and what this person did.... Maybe you can get over it, but somethings I believe you never can forgive... And you may get the trust back, but I dont think it will ever be the same again....
2007-01-31 16:18:47 · answer #1 · answered by buttafly_biattch 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont trust them again...i kno that is harsh....but they obviously want your trust again to hurt you. you can tell them you trust them...but u can always kno u dont.heres an exercise to help you : relieve the situation or maybe another in the futer or present where this person lost your trust and then when it comes to the part where you trusted them even though u should of guarded yourself. do watever comes off the top of your head!!! or (tell the person off)
2007-01-31 21:42:30 · answer #2 · answered by rawr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn't say what they did, but you can forgive them, although I personally wouldn't trust them again. You can also talk to them and ask why they did that. Keep an open channel if they decide they want to talk to you.
2007-01-31 20:58:16 · answer #3 · answered by Suzie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust can be built back if the wounded is healed.
It takes time and a willing heart.
2007-01-31 21:14:40 · answer #4 · answered by Cathy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forgive and forget, you can't move on if you don't. Trust has to be earned though, slowly...
2007-01-31 21:14:10 · answer #5 · answered by jim's girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋