How do I get Guys to notice me?? Nothing Works!?

Question

All the guys in my class never like me. And this one guy says he likes me and then he doesn't Day after day!!!!!!!! I'm tired of being invisible!

Answer 1

Okay,

I'm going to be honest with you.

1.) I asked a couple of my guy friends, and they told me, "To be honest, it's looks. Men are vain."

2.) Guys think girls are desperate when they try to get attention.

I'm going through the same problem. But just to warn you, you should be paying more attention to schoolwork. You said, class, so I'm guessing you're pretty young like me. You have a whole life to find the perfect man. And if you start right now, guess what?

The man will dump you in a matter of years. They don't work out. They just don't. Another big truth. They'll get bored.

To get their attention to make you feel better is to:

-Take a shower every day
-Don't sweat the make-up. Apply lipstick, and a teeny bit of foundation if your skin isn't making it
-Plan out what you're wearing every night, and make sure you didn't wear before
-Beauty sleep
-They want a beautiful, smart, nice, funny girl. So first of all, brush up on your schoolwork. Next, get lots of sleep. And another just act nicer to others, but DON'T BE FAKE.

Hope it helped.
Love ya
xoxo
-Rachel

Answer 2

Keep your look fresh!
I'm a t-shirt and jeans kind of gal myself, but whenever I want to get noticed I get a new hairstyle, a manicure or maybe some new clothes. Maybe all you need to do is update your look. I know that sounds cliché but most guys aren't interested in anything else.

PS If it's a confidence issue may I suggest taking up belly dancing or something? It really helps to do something you enjoy and be proud of.

Answer 3

I find it impossible for you not to be noticed by guys unless you just want a particular type of guy to notice you. Maybe some do but could be afraid to make the move. And maybe you need to be acting naturally as in being yourself and only focused on your studies. Doing what is important as a student like studying harder and doing good in most of the subjects (not necessarily topping it but shining even a little to prove your worth as a student) you will see yourself as a visible one.

Answer 4

Ignore them and do your on thing. When you start ignoring them chances are they will suddenly find you interesting. Do all of the things that you like to do and don't even give the guys a thought. Really, I'm serious. You will begin having a lot of fun and making a lot of friends. Try it you might like it.

Answer 5

hey, im invisible too. dont worry, once you get your heart broken, you'lll know that being invisible takes tons of stress and drama out of life. but if you wanna stand out, do something durastic. like coloring your hair, cutting a bunch off, get something peirced, whatever. alter your look. but make sure YOU like it. if you dont, then other people will see that you dont like yourself, not the change. or if you never hang with the guys, do something they like to do. when they see your intrests are the same, you have something to talk about. wala! worked with my last bf. i asked his friend to teach me to skateboard. my bf and i found a common interest, and he started to teach me instead. and if your in sports, try makeing a little competition. the smack talk can easily turn into flirting. or sit with them at lunch. whatever you do, always take a step back once in a while and look at yourself. think about what you sound, look, and act like. dont look desparate, or 'slutty' guys dont like it, they think its annoying. just be their friend. that is the best thing. you get to know them better and vice versa. and if they arent your bf, you can always ask them for advice on hooking another guy. my guys friends love to give advice.

HTH ♥

Answer 6

I'm sure your not invisible just be yourself and guys will be sure to notice you it works for me.

Answer 7

Guys ARE noticing you. I think the main thing to think about is self esteem. Once you are comfortable with yourself, and confident, the gents will be climbing all over themselves to get to you. Good luck to you.

Answer 8

You have to be more confident. Hey, how about start liking yourself first???. . . . . I had the same problem. . . But after I started to place myself first, all the guys started to like me. . . And no, it doesn't mean to be selfish.

Answer 9

Most boys like sporty girls and kindof smart girls but not to geeky smart. Work out more and if u are mean to a lot of people chnge your attitude. that's what i did. guess what? i always had guys liking me.

Answer 10

noones invisible....everyone notices u...
i tend to go for the ones who act like themselves and not who their freinds want them to be...but for more advice u need more info