Is it normal to get mixed feelings in the beginning? Have any of you ever got them? Is it maybe because we need to get out and do more? Sorry for all the questions. Sometimes I can feel like i want to be with him then other times I feel like am i ready or even want to be with him? He is a great guy and one of the nice ones too
2007-01-31 12:13:13 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
i think you need to think this over a little more.
2007-01-31 12:15:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Did you just get out of a relationship that was maybe not so good? It's totally normal to have mixed feelings in the beginning of a new relationship if you're not sure if you're ready for it yet. He may be the greatest guy in the world but if you're not ready for him then that doesn't matter at all! Good luck!!
2007-01-31 20:19:26 · answer #2 · answered by answergrrl3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i too ad mixed feelin's for the first year in my relation-ship,it was my way of telling myself not to get to close,when he was'nt there i missed him,when he was around i acted like i didnt care either way,boredom can play a major part after all if u dont get out much now then what's it gonna be like in a few year's,i say take each day as it come's,dont tell him u love him if u dont,be honest about how u feel u may be surprised ,but if ur open u cant lose,by the way im still with that same lad i was unsure of and it's our twelth anniversary this year.
2007-01-31 20:28:04 · answer #3 · answered by molly maid 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's alittle hard to understand your question. Mixed feelings are ok in the beginning. But if you stay with him for a few months and you still have mixed feelings, move on to someone else.
2007-01-31 20:17:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure you can have mixed feelings..there 's nothing that says you must ...stay with someone ,and I hope this isn't your married partner you are talking about.....however even nice guys are NOT the right ones..you can agree to just be on a different level or move on if there is no other way to get past this..if it isn't working for you don't wait untill marriage/kids/etc to acknowledge that.That's not fair to HIM either..talk to him..if he is a nice guy it'll be ok...sooner is better than later in this case..
2007-01-31 20:22:11 · answer #5 · answered by shasha 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's normal i guess.... yes, sometimes i also have mixed feelings... that's good you want to know him better... so try some activities that both of you can participate... it's wonderful to have a great guy beside you always... and NICE too... go for it! you'll never regret the time spent with him...
2007-01-31 20:24:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I considered them bittersweet moments, when I don't know whether to feel happy or sad. But I say, go take a chance and see how it works out when you do it.
2007-01-31 20:17:53 · answer #7 · answered by Banana Hero [sic] 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In the beginning...you should be all gushy and feeling butterflys...if you are already getting mixed feelings...hmmm...maybe you are just nervous...or maybe he is not the one.
2007-01-31 20:17:13 · answer #8 · answered by emotional blonde 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This sounds a bit double dutch to me.
2007-01-31 20:17:04 · answer #9 · answered by Aussie Possum 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh yeah, especially if you have been hurt before. Perfectly normal.
2007-01-31 20:16:04 · answer #10 · answered by Kiss My Shaz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well im going through the same thing i know how you feel but i know by val day i ll know how ill feel
2007-01-31 20:19:35 · answer #11 · answered by tyra b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋