Have you ever known someone and thought you really knew them only to find out they are not who you thought they were at all?
2007-01-31 11:31:58 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No, not really, since I specialized in criminal profiling while in the Israeli army and worked in military police and special forces for the rest of my three year army work.
Let me give you some tips.
When you make a new acquaintance, especially a man, ask the right questions, directly.
Take all his phone numbers, call randomly.
One night, when you do not have plans to go out and he is doing his own thing, get into a friend's car and tail him.
Do not jump into a sexual relationship right away.
Make sure he introduces you to his friends and family.
Do not open up too fast or tell him your darkest deepest secrets, till he is worthy of your trust.
Do not, I repeat, DO NOT make excuses for him and see what you want to see instead of the truth.
All bets are off if you are dating a CIA, FBI, all other covert agencies operatives or Batman, Superman, Spider-man. (They lead a double life, you see.)
Good Luck.
2007-01-31 11:47:29 · answer #1 · answered by artist-oranit.com. 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes, my husband. We have been married for 10 years and in the beginning it was great. He couldnt have been a better husband and father but then he started drinking heavily, being mean to me and the kids and started cheating on me. We are in the process of getting a divorce now which is very hard because he is totally not the man I married 10 years ago but I do pray for the children's sake that he changes and gets the help that he needs but I would never take him back at this point.
Good luck to you.
2007-01-31 12:18:58 · answer #2 · answered by Diane T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, it sucks when that happens. The lesson, I guess, is that actions speak louder than words. Words (e.g. compliments that stroke your ego and feed your dreamd) can deceive, but if you turn off your ego and evaluate the behavior of others, then everything is more clear.
2007-01-31 12:15:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Even family and friends let alone people in general.
2007-01-31 12:03:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes! And I hate it since they always turn out to be a horrible person!
2007-01-31 11:36:30 · answer #5 · answered by Holly Ann 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes..people like that come and go all you got to do is shrug it off your shoulder and just realize its there lost since your not in their life
2007-01-31 11:36:23 · answer #6 · answered by Foxychick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, evervbody. Quit thinking, saves time.
2007-01-31 11:40:01 · answer #7 · answered by hoodwink 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ooooooooooh ya. that is why you always keep your own money. no matter what the reason!!!
2007-01-31 11:59:55 · answer #8 · answered by KRIS 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! do I ever
2007-01-31 11:36:29 · answer #9 · answered by WhyNotMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes i have, its a terrible feeling to....
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2007-01-31 11:36:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋