This happened a yr ago and no the answer isnt cheating cause i know my husband...Why would a man who is still attracted to his VERY willing wife who NEVER says no go 2 months and not have sex with her and says he couldnt give her a reason as to why.I have been happily married to this wonderful man for 16 yrs and i know he wouldnt cheat. Everything is back to normal just wanted to see what other people think of this.
2007-01-31 11:29:56 · 23 answers · asked by gina l 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
got kicked? and i think i would know if my husband got "fixed" lol
2007-01-31 18:02:16 · update #1
john i DONT NEED OR WANT ANOTHER MAN I LOVE MY HUSBAND AND HE IS THE ONLY GUY I WANNA BE WITH.
2007-01-31 18:05:53 · update #2
He could have been under a lot of stress. He could have been physically tired. Maybe he lost confidence over something at work. There are several reasons and if he's telling you not to take it personal don't. Sounds like you have a good thing going. Don't let others try to convince you that he had an affair or he's not attracted to you. Believe him!
2007-01-31 11:37:04 · answer #1 · answered by katydid 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A loss of confidence can do many things to a man's sexual appetite. If a man tries to initiate sex but does not achieve an erection, he may not try again for a long time...even months. Also the inability to maintain a full erection can result in the same loss of confidence. And because we are guys, we don't say anything and hopes that eventually that old magic comes back. I am willing to bet anything that something similar to this happened to you guys and you probably thought nothing of it.
2007-01-31 11:55:25 · answer #2 · answered by jax0817 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
We'll I have been through that before I am a young woman married just 3 yrs. straight out of high school /college we have one son he wouldn't make love to me for months I got so worried that I just stop caring and spending all my time with our son. It made matters worst so I started doing other then dressing sexy like bed wear or nude all time that brought the fire back sometime we have to keep the fire burning in our relationship sometime were not attractive to our mate anymore The sex get boring so my dear friend just keep the fire burning in your relationship always allow time for your man keep the faith good luck love tynaishia....
2007-01-31 12:31:58 · answer #3 · answered by sexynaishia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Eh, it would want to correctly be both or. heavily basically plan for a particular evening, and if on that evening he doesn't look in touch you'll do not forget that it really is a lack of interest or that you basically do not interest him anymore. on the different hand if he's into all of it then you definately will do not forget that it change into in uncomplicated words the actual shown reality that you all have conflicting schedules.
2016-10-17 04:26:29 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he had a medical issue and that's why he couldn't have sex with you. It seems strange that after 16 years of happy marriage that it all of a sudden changes. I know if my wife hints that she wants sex, man I'm there with no hesitations at all. I suggest that you have a chat with him and discuss this - he is your husband after all.
2007-01-31 15:30:34 · answer #5 · answered by jtgot1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HELL I can do 2 months standing on my head.
Try no sex for going on now **627** weeks.
Was he drinking a bit? Stressed? You know, the obvious stuff.
Eliminate lack of sleep, job deadlines & pressures, and booze, and you are left with one conclusion: he went through a dry spell -- or he's gettin' it somewhere else.
Dry spells happen - rare, but they do happen.
2007-01-31 11:47:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he was stressed out or tired. Not all men are necessarily sex machines, they have ups and downs too. My husband and I only "do it" once a month on average, this is just how we are. Everyone's different.
2007-01-31 11:37:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes we just go through a phase where we want to just not do it. Two months is normal. I've heard up to a year. But when it comes back, it's really good.
2007-01-31 11:37:21 · answer #8 · answered by Hot Rod 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't ask such a question. You've got 16 years of great stuff, and 2 months of who knows. Maybe he got kicked. Maybe he got that vasectomy, take a look. Do your really want to know? The more you struggle the deeper you sink.
2007-01-31 11:52:16 · answer #9 · answered by hoodwink 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Either physical, or mental problems, that you might not even know about. He might be too embarassed to talk to you about them....but sooner or later, they HAVE to be addressed. Two months is too long to continue to do without......unless there's a good, legitimate reason.
2007-01-31 11:37:57 · answer #10 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋