I've been married for 2 years and I don't want to loose the heat.... I have not children yet... I'm not into threesomes nor swinging...
2007-01-31 11:17:53 · 6 answers · asked by Poli 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Torch your house and husband, no no just kidding.
Date nights in places you never been, try a spa with couple massages, it's awesome! Dress up, go dancing, take a weekend off and just rent stupid movies and stay in.
Most of all, have FUN TOGETHER!
2007-01-31 11:23:54 · answer #1 · answered by artist-oranit.com. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bed and Breakfast weekend.
take a small trip, go sightseeing, hold hands and walk.
invent new techniques in bed. keep the clock out of the room.
splurge a little at a new restaurant.
Try looking at this from another perspective.
Too much heat and flames will overtake the marriage.
Too little and it becomes hard to fan that flame again.
Look at it as "refueling the flame" and keeping the warmth intact. This way it makes the walk in marriage more enjoyable.
2007-01-31 11:53:42 · answer #2 · answered by n9wff 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have also been married for 2 years, and the heat is not always there, but when it is.....IT IS...., also remember that being turned on starts with self.....I can go into Victoria Secret or Fredericks, on any given day for no other reason, but I want to feel sexy to myself. That's something that really gets the heat going early on in the morning when he sees me getting dressed, and then he's thinking about it alllll day till we get home from our jobs.
2007-01-31 12:17:53 · answer #3 · answered by charms 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
men are basic. not dumb, but basic. Look at the reasons he was attracted to you in the first place, not what "CEMENTED" the relationship or any of that. If you want HEAT, make it. Just like you did to begin with. He liked it then.............guess what....he married you. Oh, and here is a rarity. ASK him what he wants. Don't get pissed when he tells you. Then try to do it.
2007-01-31 11:28:32 · answer #4 · answered by stratman16365 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try making a romantic date or weekend getaway with your man. Whipped cream and strawberries are one of my favorites.
2007-01-31 11:22:46 · answer #5 · answered by rhonda s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you could try vidio tapping your selves or try renting a few porno movies and dresss sexy for him one night as a supprise at dinner
2007-01-31 11:23:58 · answer #6 · answered by all we want is a 1 nite stand 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋