We were on our way to being serious. he decided he wanted to take it slow. That meant no more having sex and sleeping together. I wasnt the one who wanted this so after 3 weeks of no sex, he initiated and I did not say no. A few days later he initiated again. I did not say no. That time it wasnt that good, so I wanted to go another round.
he told me no and I got really upset, b/c I feel like I dont deny him, so why should he deny me. He then says that he doesnt want to have sex for the wrong reasons and that Im treating him like a piece of meat. After that he goes back to his original spiel of "we shouldnt have sex anymore."
does he want it only when he wants it, or can guys genuinely feel used? Im actually feeling used.
2007-01-31 10:45:15 · 4 answers · asked by Tian 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Sounds like he's struggling with moral issues. He has a "standard" but gives into his urges! He should just make up his mind about what he wants. Ask him why, after messing around and enjoying each other that he feels that all of a sudden he wants to take it slow? This is where you should question why?! Tell him what you want!
2007-01-31 11:06:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he has a good way to get some when he wants it, but still say he isn't in a commited relationship. And what's up with the whole "when I'm done, it's over." If you weren't satisfied and let him know that you wanted more and he refused, then he is a selfish pig and you should seriously consider dumping him.
2007-01-31 10:53:08 · answer #2 · answered by Beth B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is either using you or is not good for a second time. he is selfish and may have control issues.
2007-01-31 11:00:02 · answer #3 · answered by J Q Public 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, he's being selfish and using you. He seems very good at it too.
2007-01-31 10:58:08 · answer #4 · answered by carora13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋