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He constantley is away from home (because of his work) and he also constantley has females throwing themselves at him. Do you think it would be possible for him to deny every single one of them?(especially if he was drunk or something), am I going to just have to accept the fact that he will cheat on me if he hasn't already?

2007-01-31 10:41:31 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Marriage & Divorce

yeah...all these girls want to know oh my gosh!?? who is your husband..these are the same kind of girls that will be throwing themselves at him just because hes famous

2007-01-31 10:51:24 · update #1

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My husband is a DJ musician who tours often. It is so hard. I have been with him for 10 years and he has been touring for 5 or 6 years. He always wears his ring I see it in pictures. The hardest thing is not to become bitter. They are off in exotic locations partying with 20 somthing girls. Take care of yourself inside and out. Try not to cry too much keep yourself busy. Tell him your feelings and tell him excactly what it would do to you if he cheated on you.A few times(men never listen).If he really cares then it he should text you at least once a day and get an international cell so you can call him in an emergency.If you stay connected he will have a harder time forgetting you. Tell him you are so proud of him. Keep posted on his shows and time zones.Protect your man. Don't get mad at him get mad at the bitches that are making it hard for you.Tell him I trust you I just don't trust the bitches.That is if girls are flashing tit or hitting on him. He has to be nice but not too nice. Usually the talent is seperate from the crowd so it will be his decicion.I have gone up to bitches and set them straight and even gotten appologies just be straight not mean.Tell him how you feel make him know you are in a special situation that not every girl has to go through and it is normal to be jello.I am sad and happy for you at the same time.Be strong really strong I almost cry as I write this because I know. My husband is in Barcelona tonite.I feel confident because he hates it when women throw themselves at him even before I met him he had to chase me.Ask him how he feels about these desperate low self-esteam women ask him lots of questions and you will get your answer be his closest friend and ali.xoxo

2007-01-31 14:23:43 · answer #1 · answered by Rosa 1 · 2 0

not for most people. ie most people who want to rap won't have the kind of talent that would make them an international star. and then for the people that ARE that talented, they have to deal with A&R, commercial criteria. There's lots of films that deal with this actually! ... where talent intersects with the cold realities of commerce. Heads up: if you're interested in rapping, look at your local scene, including associated hiphop arts like breakdancing, which attract local rappers. Listen to a lot of good music, and learn (rather than trying to be a tough gangsta rapper - rap about what you know, your own experiences). Adjust your sights - rap because you love it, and look first at getting respect from local MCs and crews, have that as your goal for now. You are very young, but if you keep at it for a few years, people might start to pay attention once you put yourself out there, if you do have the talent. Work at being the best you can be, because you love it, rather than for the fame. Sure, everyone tends to want to be famous, but if your heart is in the right place, you'll go a lot further than if you had your 15 minutes of fame but nothing more substantial to give. Be observant, be educated, check out hiphop, graf and breakdancing history and look for the respect of your peers. Also these days the internet is something that can help make people aware of you, if you do become talented.

2016-05-24 00:02:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I don't want to make predictions like that.

But there is an excellent book by the wife of James Worthy, NBA basketball superstar, who wrote a book about this topic. Angela Wilder (formerly Angela Worthy) wrote the book entitled "The Powerful Mate Syndrome."

She does a good job of trying to be balanced and not bitter. So just because they are divorced now doesn't mean you will be or that she expects you to be. She just wants you to be able to handle different things that are thrown at you and infedility was one for her. But hopefully not you.

2007-01-31 10:54:23 · answer #3 · answered by zzzzzzzzz27 3 · 0 0

He might cheat on you and he might not. Why don't you go on the road with him some of the time? I don't think you should just 'accept the fact' that he will probably cheat on you. I think you should tell him that just because he's on the road and has women throwing themselves at him doesn't mean that you would accept him cheating and that you will not tolerate it. Remind him that there are alot of STDs out there too.

2007-01-31 10:46:29 · answer #4 · answered by StrawberryShortcake 3 · 0 0

Can you travel with him? He is your husband you are his
family, if he cherishes the marriage vowels, he should
remain faithful. The bible can help in this way, by looking
at the scriptures daily and looking to the bible for answers
that can help in so many ways. There is much advice and
admonition given on marriage and family, I can send you
something in the mail, also the book of Ephesians has
wonderful counsel for the whole family.

2007-01-31 10:54:30 · answer #5 · answered by itsmissjackson 3 · 0 0

Honey if he done cheated the signs would of already been there. Your husband loves you and just wants the best for you all. I know it's frustrating and pisses u off that he is always on the road and them so CALLED GURLS hanging on him.Remeber this ,he is YOUR MAN and he always comes home and is laying beside you when he get's off the road. NOT them other gurls......

2007-01-31 10:54:54 · answer #6 · answered by wildcatboyz2007 1 · 0 0

first of all which rapper and i think that he'll still be faithful 2 u i mean correct me if im wrong but hes the one that asked u out and hes the one that proposed and he said i do at the wedding so i personly think that he will keep an eye out but dont let it parinoy *i cant spell to save my life* u and if he does then he does and hes a jerk and if hes famous then the whole world will see that and we will hate him or at least me and my family will

2007-01-31 10:49:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

It comes down to values. Does he have them or will money change him?

Both men and women are tempted throughout life, regardless of how much they love each other, but it is possible to be faithful to one person regardless of fantastic opportunities coming your way. Does he value your relationship above one-night stands?

Some people always remain grounded while others begin to think they are God.

Some people sell out for fame and money while others never do.

You probably already know him well enough to know which kind of person he is.

2007-01-31 10:46:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 4 0

what is his name?

2007-01-31 10:44:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

From what i read i think he might cheat on u. I wouldnt reasist it
if girls were all over me ,and with all this fame he will put u out of
his mind .

2007-01-31 10:49:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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