My boyfriend wants me to come over to his house this weekend and go snowmobiling and 4 wheeling!!! But the problem is that my parents don't know I have a boyfriend!! And they say that I need to put school work before boys!!! What should I do?? Should I tell my parents or not??
2007-01-31 10:01:04 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It's not like he is interfering or anything!! B/c I am getting good grades and all but idk!!!
2007-01-31 10:12:03 · update #1
Btw I'm 16 and he is 15!!
2007-01-31 10:13:26 · update #2
tell them ur going to sleepover at ur friend house but go to ur bf then maybe a week later tell them that u have 1! so theyll no but wont no u were out with him!
2007-01-31 10:07:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Definitely tell your parents. What if>??? u end up in some kind of danger or accident. You need to let them know where you are at all times; for your own safety. How old u R matters too, if your 16 or older, I think dating shouldn't be allowed before age 16.
I just really think that honesty is best, and that if my kids were lying to me, then I would be rather HURT!
Good Luck!!!
2007-01-31 10:11:59 · answer #2 · answered by º§€V€Nº 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES!! i've been through this, keeping secrets from people.
Just sit down and tell them, you probably weren't going to sit there all weekend and study, so why can't you just go. If you get all your studying done.
If they would let you out with girl friends on the weekend, it shouldn't be any different to seeing a boy. If you're old enough then they should respect that you're growing up!
Talk to them like an Adult and hopefully they will start treating you like one!!!!
Luck
2007-01-31 10:05:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell your parents, of course they won't let you go but at least they'll know you have a boyfriend, you should put school work first he shouldn't be interfering with that, if he is then you shouldn't be together. Good luck honey!
2007-01-31 10:05:03 · answer #4 · answered by April 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you my first move would be to tell your parents. Although telling your parents may cancel the trip it's the right thing to do. If you tel them nicely apologize, and then focus on school they will allow you to do lots of other fun things with your boyfriend.Trust me, no matter how hard you try to hide it your parents will find out sooner or later and if you try to go with your boyfriend without telling them you may become grounded. You certainly wouldn't want that to happen right?
2007-01-31 10:06:32 · answer #5 · answered by pup 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes I really think u should tell your parents first!
of course your school work should be a priority but maybe if u tell them u will work extra hard - they will let u go over at the weekend - hope so! take care and have fun!
2007-01-31 10:07:43 · answer #6 · answered by snowymountains123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it depends on how strict your parents are. If they're pretty laid back then you should just tell them about him. But if they are really strict, then just do your work first, and tell them you're going snowmobiling with a few of your girlfriends, it works for me everytime. =]
2007-01-31 10:06:28 · answer #7 · answered by Melody C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should get your schoolwork completely up-to-date before you talk to your parents OR go over to your boyfriend's house. I suspect that you might be a little behind in your schoolwork.
2007-01-31 10:06:14 · answer #8 · answered by Thomas K 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lying to your parents will get you into deep trouble. Tell them the truth or they will never trust you.
2007-01-31 10:05:35 · answer #9 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
please tell them. how old are you too by the way. age has a lot to do with it. if you are under 15 then you should have told your parents way before now. if your older than that well thats your choice to risk.
2007-01-31 10:05:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋