im cheating on my boyfriend, and i dont feel guilty. is this wrong???

Question

i love him sssooooo much but he just doesnt do it for me in the bedroom. i have this other guy and he is amazing!!!! i dont feel any guilt though, is this wrong??? i dont have any felings for this other guy, its just sex. now i have been w/ my boyfriend for a year and a half and our relationship is beautiful but when it comes down to giving it to me right its always wrong. what should i do? i have tryed telling him what i like and dont but that didnt work. ive done porn and books and everything under the sun. i just need help from someone.

Answer 1

U don't love him, Ur kidding 2 Ur self. I think U outta save U both a lot of pain & break it off now. He's goin 2 be hurt & real mad when he finds out. U can't have Ur cake & eat it too. It's wrong 4 anyone to treat another person Ur in a relation ship with like this. Put Ur self in his shoes. How would U feel. If he's not doing it 4 U now what makes U think he ever will? Be kind & end this asap. I hope I gave U something 2 think about.

Answer 2

Flip the situation around in your mind. If your boyfriend had cheated, you'd want to know, right? That way you'd be able to make a proper decision. So keep thinking about that and get over your cowardice about telling him. He's done NOTHING wrong so he should be the one to decide whether he thinks it's worth staying with a cheater. For the record, you should have cut all ties with your ex once you broke up. An ex is an ex for a REASON and the fact that he suddenly became more interested when your boyfriend was away is a HUGE warning light: you are right, he's a nasty piece of work...but by giving in, you are not really any better. You need to wait for your boyfriend to come home and then tell him FACE TO FACE. Apologise and promise to wait for him to decide whether he wants to still be with you. If he does, then you should count your blessings and work to earn back his trust - step 1 would be telling your ex to LEAVE YOU ALONE and never speak to him again. If he breaks up with you, then put it down to learning your lesson. And STILL tell your ex to shove it, because how do you know he won't do the same thing with your next bf? And since he was happy to cheat with you, how do you know that, if you two get back together, he won't cheat ON you?