My life is falling apart???

Question

I cant even eat right without crying. My mom and i hate each other and didnt talk in two weeks, i'm failing grades and made two f on my report card. I keep crying and cant stop, I'm gaiining weight like crazy.....why is my life falling apart?

Answer 1

My suggestion is you speak to your mother and go see a counselor. You need some help to deal with your problems. You can not always do it by yourself.

Be well.

Answer 2

1. Your salary most likely hasn't been raised because the Western world came close to the brink of economic meltdown a few months ago and it's still anemic. 2. If the money from your job is "somehow good," you should be able to get a car. With the big car companies folding and liquidating assets, there isn't going to be a better time to buy a car for decades to come. 3. To get friends, you need to find a community of which you can be a contributing member. Whether it be your career, volunteer work, an online forum that does activities in real life, anything. Take up a sport, join a paintball team, contribute some of your time to the Big Brothers/Big Sisters movement, ANYTHING that gets you out of the house and interacting with people on an informal level. I know things can seem overwhelming. The whole world can appear to be coming apart at the seams, with nothing you can do about it. I assure you, this is NOT the case. You've just lost a sense of direction, a sense of pride. You've stopped being proud of what you've accomplished, who you are, what you do, and this needs to be corrected because it poisons your sense of self-worth and casts a shadow over everything you do, say, and think. Sit back, reexamine your goals, and decide what's important. Lying to yourself about what you want is the worst thing you can do right now. If you want friends, go get them! If you want a career you can be proud of, earn it! All work is creative work when done by a thinking mind. The life you want is there, all that remains is for you to make it!

Answer 3

first u gotta figure out why u and ur mom think u hate each other what was the reason that u two havent been talking maybe there is something in ur life that is distracting u from being focused in school. if its too personal to talk about on answers and u really need someone to talk to without passing judgement please feel free to email me its not like i know u so it cant get around to anybody that u know i hope this helps at least a little bit but keep ur head up and try to stay strong eveything will work itself out

Answer 4

How old are you? If you are around the ages of 9-22 you are probably experiencing depression; It's common to feel this way at those ages, you're hormones are going crazy. You also sound like you have alot of things to deal with at home and most likely at school too(especially if you are in highschool). If you start considering dangerous things please go get help either from a counsellor at school or your family doctor. You will get through it.

Answer 5

chances are the similarities of u both are challenging! i am 51 a cancer survivor of 5 yrs. and I hate a lot of things the longer the feelings, resentments, rage ,tears your guts out your nervous, heart etc. do not function properly, including the brain!! do not keep feelings locked in a vault like i did because time makes it harder to resolve hope this helped a little PS do not do something u will regret later sunnee

Answer 6

sorry to hear the relationship with your mom is that bad what have to done for her to get to this point? the best thing to do is make it all up to her and get your head buried in your school and bring your grades up for mom will not alway's be there for you and after you leave home you will need something to help you to sevive in this world and good grades will help a lot if my kid made 'f's i would be mad 2

Answer 7

you need to let it out somehow, but make sure it's not self-destructive which it already is.
In order to deal with them you need to WANT to deal with your issues. Go talk to your mother. I did that before and I felt so much better.

Good Luck

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Answer 8

u sound depressed
contact a doctor or pastor
Moms were kids once and they had stuff get to them too
give her a chance
good luck

Answer 9

oh im so sorry to hear that......but listen dont worry things will get better i promise.....y dont u just call your mom and settle things out? youll start loosing weight and youll get better grades if you try harder... im the same way with my grades but i just started studying more and getting in my homework and my grades are gettin better everyday!!!!but i promise... things will get better....e-mail me later and tell me if things get better!!!Good luck

Answer 10

you need to talk to someone..you need to find out what is causing your unhappiness and deal with it before it gets worse..do you have a supportive family member you can talk to?