am i ugly?

Question

i have my pic up, and it is real
but i dont have a boyfriend and i havent had a real relationship in a long time, boys dont really notice me even if i act like myself
im 5'4 im skinny but sometimes i feel too skinny and im colombian i have a slightly dark tan i have hair that reaches up to my cheast
why cant i get a boyfriend? im i ugly? or is it something else that guys dont like about me...?

Answer 1

No way are you ugly! It sounds like you haven't hung around the right type of guys. My best friend is Jesus and He loves me for who I am on the inside. You need to know that God doesn't make mistakes! You are very treasured. God will send someone your way in His good timing. That doesn't mean that you shouldn't be out there having fun. Just don't put so much weight on the whole boyfriend issue. It only takes one, you know, and that special one will show up soon (usually when you least expect it!). Being yourself is totally the way to go (if you aren't yourself when you first meet someone, eventually your true self will come out and then your boyfriend and you may not click anymore - that sets you and him up for total disappointment). I'll pray for you! God bless...

Answer 2

You are great looking. Try this

(1) Build confidence
(2) Change Hair style, put some curls
(3) Get good designer tops
(4) Keep away from gray color
(5) Get a pair of sunglasses
(6) Top brand shoes

When you involve yourself in all the above you won't get any
negative thoughts.

Good Luck!!!

Answer 3

Everyone is beautiful in their own way. You are beautiful like every young lady.

Try looking at people and noticing the features that you think are pretty, not just the whole package. Like a gal with nice lips, pretty hair, cute smile. Here's a tip: Give compliments to other people and you'll feel better about yourself too.

If boys haven't noticed you, don't worry. There's that one that will be worth the wait and will be perfect for you.

Answer 4

beauty is in the eyes of the beholder! and no hunny ur not ugly. maybe u need to socialize more and let guys see the real u! not someone fake. maybe u need to hand out with the right people and not the wrong crowd , maybe u need to find some newer friends and see if they can introduce you to someone nice. take care! oh and don't listen to the stupid mean people that have no lives and all they do is sit in there houses on there computers and all say mean thing to make there boring life seem better ...OK!!! bye Hun :)

Answer 5

You are not ugly. Those boys are probably shy about talking to a cute girl like yourself. I know I would be if I was in their shoes. Just start up the conversation with a boy instead of waiting for them to come. Just keep being your self and you will be alright.

Answer 6

well, there is nothing wrong with how you look! You are so pretty. Maybe it is how you act that turns people away. Maybe you come across as someone that doesnt like anyone or is unfriendly. Try getting involved in activities, like a club or after school activity. Maybe you will meet someone nice, and they will realize that you are not the person that everybody thinks you are. Good luck.

Answer 7

If a guy doesn't like you because he thinks you're ugly he's obviously shallower than a puddle in the middle of Death Valley. I don't worry about boys - if the right guy comes along, the right guy comes along and lasting relationships are built on friendship anyway.

Answer 8

You look and sound young from your pic and question. Don't worry you are not ugly. Just try talking to people more. If you like someone let them know. And don't worry even if you get turned down it happens to me all the time. You will find someone eventually.

Answer 9

You are not ugly at all! Dont ever let anyone tell you that you are either! Keep your head up kiddo and just wait for the RIGHT guy to find you! Trust me! It will be worth it in the long run. Maybe your just not ready.

Answer 10

From the picture that I've seen, and it's a small picture, no. You're not ugly at all. Stop being so self conscience. Put yourself out there. Guys will notice you eventually.