Many cross-dressers are not gay. Some have wives and children. Some feel sexier when they wear women's clothes.
There is nothing wrong with what you are doing. As long as you aren't hurting anyone else, what business is it of theirs?
Do what you feel comfortable doing? I wear slacks almost every day, yet does that make me less of a woman? I'm comfortable in slacks and, sometimes, even men's shirts. I am not a lesbian. Why is it any different for you?
Some women might be taken aback by what you do, but I would say that is due to their own ignorance. I, personally, wouldn't care what my man wore, just as long as he treated me with love, respect, caring, and was honest with me.
Responsibility for your life and happiness is yours alone. Don't pay attention other people's prejudices. Be yourself and be true to yourself. Like I said before, as long as you are not hurting someone else, it's no body's business but yours.
Good Luck!
2007-01-31 09:41:42
·
answer #1
·
answered by Nepetarias 6
·
5⤊
1⤋
Well, that is up to you. If you think your mom is open minded enough to accept this, then go ahead. But keep in mind that the reality is that very, very few people accept it when men or boys like to wear women’s clothing. It is just part of the double standards that prevail in our society. Women have taken all the male clothing and can wear them without anybody blinking an eye, but when men do the reverse it seems to be the worst thing that can happen on earth. People are much quicker to accept sons and men who have become serious drug addicts, have become heavy criminals, alcoholics or are into brutal violence than those who like to wear pantyhose and so. Like Andy1087 I’d rather have a son interested in pantyhose and other women’s clothing than one who is drinking excessively or into drugs, violence, crime and such things. What I am trying to say is that there is always the possibility of difficult scenes. But if you feel strong enough about it, go ahead and tell her. You are not doing anything wrong or causing anybody any harm. There are loads of men enjoying pantyhose (including myself) and women’s clothes. I’m not what is hypocritically called a cross-dresser, but I discovered pantyhose at a young age and have been wearing since I was 12 and love it. If you feel good in them then just do so, regardless of what anybody thinks or says. I suggest you get your own though and then enjoy it as much as you can. Good luck.
2016-05-23 23:49:48
·
answer #2
·
answered by Anonymous
·
0⤊
0⤋
As far as if women wear panties with pantyhose, it really depends on the chick, if I wear pantyhose, on the very rare occasion I do, I don't wear panties. Now, that's out of the way....we can get down to the real issue at hand here. To answer your first question, most women do not find this attractive, most women are a little weirded out by a guy who wears pantyhose (I think it's mostly because, for most women, wearing pantyhose is like torture and we can't possibly imagine why someone who isn't socially expected to wear them would do so willingly). I have known a couple very hetero guys that like to wear panties and pantyhose on occasion, I have been told by both of the guys I know that have admitted this to me that they like the feeling of constriction that you get when wearing such garments. I don't know your reason but you're not the only straight guy out there that likes wearing womens undergarments. Personally, I would love to NOT have to wear them (and most days I don't because I have the way it feels to have on extra garments), if I could get away with it I think I would much prefer wearing boxers but, seeing as how I'm a girl and, as all girls are, I'm a bit vain and want to wear tight jeans I skip the boxers and opt for the g-string. If I were you I would only tell your significant other about your affinity for womens underthings once you are REALLY comfortable with her and are sure that that sort of thing won't scare her off. Good luck!
2007-01-31 09:46:32
·
answer #3
·
answered by sarahsmiles1222 3
·
1⤊
1⤋
First of all let me just say that if you are comfortable in panty hose more power to you! I HATE THEM and I am a woman. My philosophy on life is not to cast stones so the answer is yes wear underwear with them! Most women in my opinion would not find this attractive but hey, some may. A lot of actual tranvestites (NOT SAYING THAT YOU ARE ONE) get married and their wives accept them and they live their entire lives as a woman! So whatever tickles your pickle! Good Luck!
2007-01-31 10:08:25
·
answer #4
·
answered by Kimnkicks mommy 3
·
3⤊
0⤋
You should buy the french lace theigh highs if you're going to wear panties.. make sure it's a matching set. (it's defeinately sexier =) and definately wear panties w/ your pantyhose, it cuts back on the irritation if there's moisture. or use baby powder but then you're left with white marks.
fyi-it's definately not attractive to women.
2007-01-31 09:34:57
·
answer #5
·
answered by Freddie xoxo 4
·
2⤊
0⤋
I've had a couple of men in my life that have worn women's panties and I was okay with it, but that's me. I always wear panties with my pantyhose. I love wearing pantyhose not sure why I guess I'm old fashion ( 43 yrs. old).
2007-02-01 00:24:59
·
answer #6
·
answered by Nascar 5
·
1⤊
1⤋
It's not attractive to me, but I don't know how other girls feel about it. My reasoning is that I enjoy being the girl and I want my man to be a man! I wear panties under the hose and I would suspect that most other women do too.
2007-01-31 09:35:46
·
answer #7
·
answered by Annie 1
·
1⤊
1⤋
put the panties on first..then slide the panty hose over top.If you are a guy then get panties with a gusset built in or get crotchless undies and hose from an adult store.Problem is..you need room for your balls and if you get an erection there is no room in ladies undies for this to happen...just a tip from an old woman..have fun
2007-01-31 09:40:11
·
answer #8
·
answered by evon stark 5
·
5⤊
0⤋
If the pantyhose is "control top" there is no need also depends on the weather in the winter i will also wear underwear, seriously you need help.
2007-01-31 09:36:45
·
answer #9
·
answered by lara 5
·
1⤊
1⤋
Well whatever rocks your boat hun, but no I do not wear pantyhose I prefer stockings.
2007-01-31 09:35:46
·
answer #10
·
answered by Sherry M 4
·
1⤊
0⤋